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hotclubcpl4u

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About hotclubcpl4u

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    Contributor
  • Birthday May 25

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple/Bi-F/Straight M
  • Location
    Ontario, Canada
  • Interests
    Soft swing
  • Occupation
    Medical
  • Swinging Experience
    3 yrs

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    hotclubcpl4u
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Close Encounters, CFG

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  1. Nobody except the people that we swing with. We prefer our private life to be just that.....private.
  2. If you shave smooth....put Dove stick deodorant on the area (Original formula) and you won't get those bumps, or sore skin. Works like a charm! facelick
  3. Yep...that's what it is....friends who don't swing.
  4. I think the problem is that a vast majority of people in the lifestyle have children your age. I know that we wouldn't even consider a 19 yr. old...
  5. We belong to an off premise club that caters to couples and single females. It seems that the majority of the women at our club (probably 85%) are bi or at least bi-curious. I'm sure there are many of these husbands or partners that would be more than willing to watch, as long as you don't mind the fact that another man will also be watching your wife.... Seems like a fairly simple solution depending on how you (and she) feel about this sort of arrangement. Good luck in your search!!!
  6. My husband and I are very new to this lifestyle and so far have very little experience, however the one thing that we do know (and practice) is very open and honest discussions....lengthy and ultimately, very erotic for both of us.... I would say, that if you can't even disuss this subject without "a big fight" as a result, that "run for your life" is very good advice. This lifestyle is for the benefit of both partners, and if one person feels in the least bit uncomfortable in any way, then it definitely off limits and time for more open and totally honest discussion. The couple and the love that you have for each other always comes first. Never do anything that will jeopardize that, otherwise your motives and the end result will be a disaster. And NEVER do anything just to please someone else!!
  7. In a couple situation, was it the female partner's idea to explore swinging, or the male's? And which partner was the more adventurous?
  8. My husband and I have a very strict no kissing rule...it is something that we both agree on 100%. We feel that their is nothing more special or intimate than the kisses we share since they hold so much emotion for us. I remember telling this to someone (a man) at a club and he laughed at us and said "you'll change your mind". I thought that he was insulting and hurtful and showed complete lack of respect for our feelings and didn't appreciate it at all. Everyone has their own rules and it is not for us to judge... Hold true to your feelings and your values....they are important...
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