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  1. My wife and I are newbies, but have had 1 or 2 experiences in the past year. We are getting antsy and are looking for our next "conquest" but due to an issue that we had with a previous playmate my wife mentioned that she wants to play with someone a little more "professional." So I started looking for couples escorts (escorts who do their thing as a team). Would anyone get involved with such an endeavor? My wife wants the utmost annonymity, and feels that a provider is someone that we would never run into in our vanilla lives (the wife actually interviewed a previous playmate for a job where she works!! - that was the bad situation I spoke of up above. Imagine seeing someone you fucked at a swingers club on the other side of a desk at a job interview!! Very very bad...). Anyway, does anyone think this is a good idea. Has anyone done anything like this before? We'd likely meet up at a hotel, they do a couples massage on us, maybe an erotic jaunt in the hot tub, they put on a show, and we join in if we are so inclined. Thanks for reading. Monte
  2. First off, let me thank everyone for their great advice and great game suggestions. I have come to my senses and put the surprise couple thing out of my head. My wife has been feeling a lot better lately, and is actually not confined to the bed any longer, so we've been catching up on some well deserved fucking!! She claims the pregnancy is making her hormones go nuts and making her a crazy horndog, but I like to think that it's my devastating good looks!! But seriously.... The resaon I am writing this, is becuase my wife actually brought up her birthday celebration last night, and told me that it was the hottest thing we'd ever done. A few months back, after her birthday week was over, I made her write a list of expectations for next year, and I told her to keep it secret until her next birthday. Well, she gave me some hints as to what was on her list, and they were pretty hot - A LOT hotter than I thought my reserved wife would come up with. I kept prodding, and found that one of the things on her list was to do go to a "sex club" as she called it. I then asked her "why" and she told me that she might want to make my fantasy of getting her in an MFM threesome come true. After exploding in a spontaneous orgasm, I asked her if she was for real, and she said she'd first like to go somewhere where there was no pressure to do anything, but if she felt up to getting involved she could. And if she didn't feel comfortable with another man, she said she'd always fantasized about me fucking her doggie style for a room full of people to see. Does it get any better than that? I think I may have brought the true vixen out of my wife, for sure. So I ask everyone here, wht do you think? Do I chalk this up to her being REALLY horny after not having sex for a really long time, or should I start looking for a newbie friendly club to see if we can both pull this off? Thanks again for your help. Any ideas on this one would be appreciated as well. M
  3. Thanks to everyone for their heart felt advice. Looks like I may have been a bit overzealous about what to do next year. I think I've seen the light and have decided that this is not the right thing to do. I guess my real impetus was to try to find a way to heat things up for our next birthday romp, instead of arranging another getway that turns out to be exactly the same. The things we did this past year were pretty darn hot (especially for the 2 of us), and the communication aspect (actually talking candidly to each other about our fantasies) was really what turned us both on the most (well, maybe fucking the hell out of each other in the mens locker room shower with the cleaning man right outside was a close second!!). But I guess I'll need to spend the next few months planning what we can do as an encore to an already amazingly sexy weekend, wihout it getting stale and seeming like the exact same weekend. I started thinking of taking her to a strip club, or a couples massage parrlor, or maybe even seeing if we can go somwhere like a Hedo or similar resort somewhere closer to home (it'll be tough to leave the baby when her birthday rolls around, so we may only get a day or 2 away this time). Definitely something that would need to be communicated beforehand, but I think if I brought up a vacation like that, she would definitely start to understand where my dirty little mind was trying to take the two of us!! Anyway, thanks again for your hep. I think the people on this board are compassionate, honest, and extremely helpful. Here's to my hope that everyone in this lifestyle is at least half as nice as you have been to me so far. If so, I'm sure we'll be in for a great ride when the 2 of us are ready. Oh yeah - and if anyone does have any sexy ideas for my wife's birthday next year (of the non swinging type for now!!) I'm always searching for tips!!! Thanks again all... M
  4. My apologies for not noting this in my original post, but in response to all of the PM's I've received after posting this, I wanted to let everyone know that the baby is due in October, and my wife's birthday isn't until May 2005, so we'll have plenty of time to return to some normalcy before I spring this on her!! Thanks to everyone for their interest so far. M
  5. Thanks for the response. It's difficult to relate this in a forum post, but my fantasizing is late at night, after I've gone to work, cooked dinner for the wife and kids, given the kids their baths, read them stories and put them to bed, and spent an hour recapping the day in bed with the wife until she falls asleep. Surely a red-blooded male can fantasize about his next sex romp with his wife after 4 months of not being able to touch her. The pregnancy thing is going as well as can be expected - I'm doing EVERYTHING I can to help my wife out - nothing in the world comes before her health and well being. Well, maybe one thing - the health and well being of my kids!! But, this is not something that is taking time away from my caring for her, by any means. I hope my post didn't make it seem like I'm being cold to her. I'm just doing a bit of planning for our next time. If I spent 24x7 worrying about the pregnancy I would go berzerk. So I force myself to only worry about it 23x7 and spend an hour a night thinking about the time we spent together on her last birthday, and looking forward to her next one... Thanks for the response. Monte
  6. Hello all. This is my first post on this board, but also a good way for me to ask for some needed advice. I apologize in advance if this is too long winded!! I’m the male half of a very happy, young (both 28 yrs old, together for 7 years, married for 3), married couple with 2 kids and another due shortly. I truly adore my wife in every way - emotionally, physically, sexually. She is the greatest mother in the world to our children, and an even better wife. She is my soul-mate and I love her more than anything in the world. Not to mention she is the hottest thing I have ever seen…. Well, as I’m sure everyone here knows, work, kids and everything else in the world can take their toll on a married couple’s “alone time.” So last year on her birthday, I arranged an erotic weeklong getaway for us both. She is fairly reserved, not the swinging type on the surface, but I wanted to see if switching up the environment, and letting her know that this week was about us ALONE, I figured I could loosen her up. We had certainly never done anything like this before. Sex between us was restricted to the bedroom, and even though it is amazing, we have traditionally been far from what you would call sexually explorative. Well, my idea worked. We had an incredible week, filled with the best sex we’ve ever had. We also played some sex games for the first time in our lives, and she brought up (during a game of truth or dare) that she fantasizes about having sex with another woman. I also told her my fantasy about having sex with her while she blew another guy. She didn't flinch at either. We didn't really pursue it much further (truth or dare came up on our last night) but naturally I can’t stop thinking about the possibilities. We’re a bit preoccupied now as she’s on bedrest from the pregnancy, but I am already planning her next birthday week (it helps me pass the time since sex is off limits for the time being), and that's where I’d like some advice. I’m going to arrange another erotic week, with some similar games and activities (possibly a different theme), and I wanted to try to kick it up a notch, but didn't know how far I could take it. I know she’s not ready for real swinging yet (I don’t really know if I am either), not even the soft stuff, but I was thinking maybe trying to set up a surprise where one night at the hotel bar we bring in another couple to join one of our corny sex games like truth or dare, or strip poker to see what it does for her. My idea was some fondling, nudity, possibly massaging of body parts, etc. No oral or intercourse, just some "fairly" dirty, safe fun.. I’m not sure yet if I am thinking about complete strangers that we pick up at the bar, or someone that we know. I am a strong believer in the element of surprise when I get romantic, but I know everyone here always talks about communication, etc. Do you think another couple is something I can innocently spring on her as a surprise? I really wanted to see how she would react to a situation where we were performing somewhat sexy acts in front of other people and possibly some light contact with them, instead of the typical truth or dare scenarios that we did last time. I’m not sure if this is the best introduction to opening up our marriage to this type of activity, so if anyone has any better ideas, please let me know. On our last romp, some of the things we did, included riding the glass elevator at the hotel with me inside of her until we both came, sex while we took a shower of the men’s locker room (and in an ironic twist, the cleaning man was doing his thing while we were getting busy – talk about erotic!!), skinny dipping in the hot tub unbeknownst to the other 2 people in the tub, and I had her perform various tasks throughout the hotel in various states of undress – answering the door for the room service guy in a towel, and letting it slip before he left, getting ice from the ice machine in a wet t-shirt and panties, being naked on the indoor balcony, etc. It was all very erotic, and she was extremely receptive to it all – much more than I thought she would be, as we (and mostly she) have traditionally been fairly buttoned up when it comes to sex, etc. It really brought a new dimension to our sex life, one that I would like to continue, and that I think she would too. Am I a wacko? Should I just tell her what I’m planning and see what she says, ruining the surprise? I just figured it would be a nice way to continue the “opening up” that we started on her last birthday. I’m still nervous though about bringing up the subject of swinging as I don’t want to upset her if my assumptions are wrong, but what I’m thinking of is something a bit more innocent, than a swapping situation. Any ideas would be appreciated. Monte PS - This web site rocks. Pity I just found it.
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