couplefromma

I once saw a statistic that almost 2% of all Americans consider themselves swingers. Whether this was an accurate poll is anyone's guess.

We had a couple we would swing with on a regular basis that we did this with as well and it worked out very well. The threesomes were just as wonderful as the foursomes...

Mrs. Naughty.... ....we are not worthy.... Thank you for these updates...we have really enjoyed following your adventures

Is Mrs Naughty a teacher??? a whole new set of fantasies now...

We love the Naughty threads...Good Luck!

Mrs. couple has a cousin who is also in the lifestyle. They sent us pictures one year from a vacation they took with another couple and I said to the Mrs. they are in the lifestyle and she said I was crazy. Sure enough it came up in a phone conversation they had and I was correct. She said how did you know. I said it was just a feeling I had based on these very vanilla pictures. She now asks me about other people we know...lol

We always take the approach friends first everything else second. We like to feel comfortable with the people we are with and we also feel the better you know someone, the better the trust. The trust leads to more interesting scenarios which make it even more fun.

Congrats...we are always so happy for someone who gets off on a good note in the lifestyle. May they all be this wonderful.

We agree with likeminds321...alot of pressure on you to handle the situation with your desire, Mr Naughty's desire and all of us here reading this wonderful thread. The question is do you think he got your message. If he did maybe next time it will progress to a stage you want. Just relax it will happen when everything is right. And we bet Mr. Naughty would never be disappointed in what you do. Just keep smiling and the shirt untied.

We have been together for 20 years and married for 18.5...Our marriage is stronger now then it has ever been.

Atilla, For some of us its worked out quite well. It depends on if you and your partner and them if it works. For some of us it works well for others it doesnt but it is sure a comfort factor to know the other couple is only being with you at the time especially in regards to D/D. Over time with the couple we were exclusive with we built up a friendship that allowed trust which led to a variety of things happening for us. For some they dont like it for others some do. We each take from this lifestyle what we want and we have found if you search long enough you will find people who want the same things out of this.

We were exclusive with one couple for two years. We played in almost everyway imaginable. 4somes, MMF threesomes, some heavy flirting when we were alone with the other spouse doing some errand or something. We also shared alot of "vanilla" time and have stayed good friends even though they have left the lifestyle. I think it works for some and not for others. Like we always say you get what you want from this lifestyle. There is usually someone to share your desires or beliefs with.

I think sometimes my parents were. My mother used to joke about my father's girlfriends and they had alot of "friends" over where we were told we could not come downstairs after bedtime. They would also go away with a lot of their friends when we got to be old enough. Makes me wonder now

There are a few other forums that deal with this question. If you do a search on catholic or religion you will find them. One of the couples recommended this web site: http://www.libchrist.com Hope this helps.

You must talk to him about it. You have been open enough to talk about your sexuality this is something you need to talk about and discuss and come to some conclusion together. Also, go to a real doctor and have the test done. Make sure. But my advice is to talk to him and discuss the matter and face this together.