knightmare

That attitude always astounds me. How can you measure such a thing? It is like pain threshold. Each individual is different. What may be intensely painful to one person might be only moderate discomfort for another. The same I would expect holds true for sensitivity. You could argue that the same individual might be more or less sensitive pre/post circumcision but only someone who had the procedure done as an adult is really in a position to comment and then only for their own personal experience. When it was time to decide about circumcising our son we did a lot of research and found that there are individuals, circumcised as adults, for both sides (more/less sensitive after the procedure). To make a broad statement like the above strikes me as an overgeneralization.

Oh, goody. Another evangelist come to save us. Why don't you consider that your post does nothing to address the issue and everything to inflame the readers?

Sorry, but why is the woman's rule more important than the man's? In fact, is there even any such thing? I would think it is couple A's rules plus couple B's rules that make the rules for the encounter. Seems to me that nobody's rule should be any more or less important than anybody else's rule and assigning importance by gender is just plain sexist.

My wife and I have a pact. Whenever we buy a new car we have to "break it in" The hard part is finding a place to park where we won't be disturbed. This does bring back a fond memory of a time when I was dating. Was parked with my girl in the middle of a dark parking lot. Clothes were just starting to get undone when a REALLY bright flashlight is aimed through the window. Fortunately the cop on the other end was very understanding of us kids

Are you saying you don't go to doctors for any reason or just ED? If the former then I suggest you change your attitude. Regular checkups can be extremely important in finding out about problems earlier, when they are more treatable, rather than later. This is especially true as we get older and 52, while hardly old, is starting to get up there where medical problems rear their ugly heads more frequently . Too many "obviously healthy" people just keel over due to cancer, high blood pressure, heart disease, stroke, etc. when they could have been treated if their problem had been diagnosed early enough. JMHO.

So did my wife but she's still paying for it on a daily basis.

On what possible basis can you make that statement? I would venture to say that virtually every couple here, who is swinging and not cheating, would say that sex with their own spouse is the best there is. Furthermore, quality is far superior than quantity. Methinks you doth protest too much and are just dissatisfied at home. Hmm, quite odd that there is not even 1 public response supporting your position, don't you think? My vows don't mention sex at all. The issue of your cheating is not the act of sex, it is the fact that you are doing so behind your wife's back. You can cheat on her just by having an intimate conversation with someone just as much as by physical contact. It is a mental thing, not a physical one.

We saw it too. In fact, it was one of the things that gave an extra "push" to us to do more than just casually talk about swinging ourselves.

I would think that, by and large, people mean to be honest and straightforward with how they represent themselves and what they're looking for. Not to say they are a "couple" if they are only a "single" and the like. I suppose some who write that might be averse to a game of "strip poker" but somehow I doubt it

Our ad says "no smokers" and we mean it. We're both very sensitive to the odor and, having kissed smokers in the past, know that I can't stand the taste either . I wouldn't assume that all people are as touchy about it as we are but if the ad says it explicitly I would assume they aren't interested. JMHO.

Hmm, with 8 of the 11 posts here being from either an interracial couple, or a couple who has seen/swung with an interracial couple, what does that do to the math statistics? Perhaps there is a higher percentage of interracial couples that swing vs. the rest of the population?