bmw_grrl

Hi - me and my fiancee are very interested in swinging and we've experimented with friends and enjoyed it, but I'm a larger young woman (300 lbs), and I'm very self consious about it. Aside from a few places I see in the media, they make swinger clubs out to be like everyone there is beautiful. Is this true? If we were to go would I get ignored? Anyone from CT to vouch for that?