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  1. I just don't consider those who are there for a show to be swingers. Granted you can't be as free as you want at a normal club, such as having sex on a couch. It is a shame though that most people are not there to do anything with anyone else. These people are not new either, they sit on the opposite side of the room and ignore everyone. They then go to the other side and have sex with one another. One couple even moves away from people if they sit nearby, at the next table. Don't know if they are simply stuck up or not. I'm sorry, but what makes some so great that they won't associate with anyone at the club? I am speaking about these 2 couples at the club we go to, not anyone on the board. We haven't tried talking to them because they will literally move if anyone sits too close to them. I guess speaking to people is not part of the lifestyle. Hope no one actually should ask them to swap.
  2. We are still very new to this but have noticed that most of the couples have no intent on swinging. The on-premise club we go to exists mostly of voyeurs and exhibitionists. They usually sit there and just watch. Not much interaction at all among those in attendance. You may see 3-5 couples out of 75 that are actually swapping partners by the end of the night. We even had one couple who the female half would receive but not give anything in return to my SO. After her husband talked to her she said she would make an exception this time. Needless to say we did not bother with them. Some nights the single males are well behaved and others it is a nightmare. Last week it seemed all of them were like a pack of wolves thirsty for the kill. They just kept walking back and forth getting more pissed because no one would put on a show for them. We even had a stalker throughout the night. The regulars are all nice but it is difficult breaking into that crowd. It does seem that most are not there to actually meet others. :rollseyes:
  3. No actually I am not equating emotion into it. I just think I would want someone to please my SO and not be in it to get their rocks off. I knew someone that was seeing 4 different people a week. Sometimes even couple. Every week it was a new bunch of people. I didn't classify her as a swinger but a slut. Sorry but swingers should have a mutual respect for those they are trying to please in bed. If I wanted unattached sex I could get us an escort. A 14 might know how to drive a car but that does not mean they are equipped to do so intelligently all the time. I know for some of you I am beating a dead bird and you still won't see what I am getting at. So I guess you believe someone sticking it to your wife for 5-10 minutes and not caring how she felt is fine. Sex is only sex in your book. This means they should really not give a crap about your feeling. Last thing I will bother saying on this subject, is this. These so called swingers at 17-18 are also having sex at age 12-14. Now I am not being a prude about this otherwise I wouldn't be in the lifestyle. This means there is something WRONG in their lives that they are having sex when they are in 6th grade. I know some people won't like this opinion, but if you are that young and having sex on a regular basis then their is something dysfunctional in your life. In my book I guess all I'm looking for is people who understand what it means for someone to share their bed with a stranger. If you want straight sex, go for it. I don't believe anyone so young knows or cares if it is a mutually satisfying experience. Not old enough to drink, DEFINITELY NOT old enough to swing.
  4. My question arose due to someone on the chat board saying they started at age 17. To me I think that is too young. I don't care how mature someone thinks they are, but highschool kids are not old enough in my opinion. There may be the exception to the rule but I don't believe anyone at 17 or 18 even has marriage on there minds, little less than swinging. I simply believe someone who has yet graduated from highschool does not understand the major issues in life , little less swinging. I was simply amazed at the age I was given and really thought the peson was lying. Is it really true swinging at that age or simply experimenting in sex. The reason most single males are not accepted in the lifestyle is because they bring no relationship into the equation when they are trying to swing. I guess what I truly wonder is whether anyone at that age sees their fooling around as true swinging. Does the boyfriend/girlfriend know what is happening? If so do they not care because they could care less since they are also cheating. It simply brought something to my attention since I had never really thought of anyone that young as a swinger.
  5. How young do you think is too young for someone to start swinging? I always figured you should be mature enough to handle a relationship before swinging. Someone the other day commented that they started swinging when they were in their early 20's. We are in our early 30's and even that is usually the young side you see at the clubs. I was just wondering everyone else's take on this subject. Thanks.
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