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About sahajacpl

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    Sahaja
  • Birthday 08/19/1950

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  • Relationship Status
    Married Couple
  • Location
    USA
  • Interests
    Sports, travel, romantic/erotic fun and meeting likeminded couples for sensuous/sexual exploits.
  • Occupation
    Business
  • Swinging Experience
    8 years
  • Anniversary
    July 14

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  • SLS Name
    sahajacpl
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Red Rooster

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  1. We have never been in a gangbang, and, the thought or a scenario of watching multiple men fucking your wife/gf/so sounds quite a challenge for the man. There must be some reason women love a gangbang, where multiple men play with her sexually and then stick their penises in her vagina in a group, train, or, whatever, and fuck her. Can someone, a woman preferably, explain the attraction to the woman (or man) of a gangbang. We presume that her hubby or bf watches while she has intercourse with many guys at the same time. We are not against trying or experiencing a gangbang. Just curious. Is gangbang style swinging common, and, what percentage of swingers participate in gangbangs? We would love to get some answers from those couples that have done gangbangs.
  2. Dear NaBo: This quote says it all. Too much thought and a couple gets into analysis paralysis. A couple needs to be able to separate love from pure sex when you are ready to swap mates. After all, you are meeting another couple/s for the same purpose - so the male (her hubby) wants to fuck your wife and you the wife wants to fuck the husband. Once you have gathered the courage to do a full swap, i.e., have intercourse with each others husband/wife, then you will have no regrets after the sexual encounter or act, just pure sexual joy, and, satisfaction. As a couple please do enjoy the moment of sexual liberation that comes with swapping mates with another couple/s for sex. Then after your first liberating sexual encounter you as a couple should explore variations in swinging such as group sex (many couples), dp, orgies, gang bangs, etc. Take your time to explore these variations in swinging and you will not regret your carefully considered decision to get out of non-monogamy and the conventional view of sex as intercourse strictly between husband and wife only. We wish more couples take the path to sexual liberation that you two have chosen.
  3. We have a more practical approach to inviting the other couple to swing and swap mates. One can almost get the vibes if the other couple is willing to play. When we meet the couple, and, really like them (both him/her are attractive) then there is no point in dilly dallying before you approach them to suggest play and swap of mates. Our experience is that the other slow approach, another meeting, etc., is counterproductive. Just feel them out and if there is sufficient chemistry and both wife and I agree to invite them to play (full swap intended) just ask and if they say no, find another couple to play with. That way you are done with, either yes or no! Just our two cents.
  4. DRM is a great place for a couple to have fun and sex. We were there few years ago, when they had just opened and loved it. Food and service was great and would go again.
  5. We think a woman's intuition is the best guide in this situation. Some women she (my wife), would not like me to touch with a ten foot long pole, (or dick). Others, she is perfectly OK with me socializing with and fucking.
  6. The modern day version of the key party is a house party where a close knit group of 8 to 10 couples get together for drinks and dinner in the house of the host couple. After a few drinks and conversation couples may play with another couple's spouse and swap partners for sex. Sexually charged games may be involved to get the party going. The old style "key parties" of legend where you may be paired with another wife/hubby at random by picking up keys are most likely extinct.
  7. Perhaps, more likely to work for a mature couple. Yet, more and more younger (in their 30's) couples seem to be opting for open marriage. Case in point, one of our own, 32 year old Deb insisted and got an agreement with her fiancée to have an open marriage. She had had several boyfriends with whom she had dated and had sex freely before marriage. So, it depends upon the mindset rather than how long you have been married.
  8. So, how does cuckolding differ from swinging separately or open marriage with or without consent of your primary mate? As a thought and a variation of good old-fashioned swinging where both husband/wife are present during sexual play, and, of course intercourse with another male/female it sounds exciting. And, as a variation of swinging, cuckolding sounds very exciting particularly when you meet a sexy woman where her husband is away, and, you would love to fuck her in a one-on-one or f/m/f fashion. I have actually done, i.e., fucked a few women in this scenario, but never thought of the encounter as cuckolding. Never thought of involving her hubby to watch or play and perhaps that made it just cheating on her part. In one case after I fucked the woman and then met her hubby the next day and just the thought of his not knowing that I had done his wife previous night I got a hard-on.
  9. Regardless, both swinging separately and open marriage are consensual arrangements whether or not details/names of actual sexual partners and place of encounter may and may not be known or revealed unless asked for.
  10. That from Sunbuckus sums it up very well, we think. We do not know about the majority but for us I (male) was already into swinging having dated numerous girls having had sex with most of them. I also did a m/f/m threesome with a friend and his French wife at his (and her) behest. I also had a tennis buddy who talked me and my then girlfriend into a foursome full-swap with him and his girlfriend. Later we did another full-swap with another couple he knew, few years older than us. When we got married, wife had no experience in swinging. We gradually got talking and fantasizing about sex with other partners that then became a reality. So there we go. Most couples that are open-minded about sex arrive at swinging in their own unique manner.
  11. Swing separately to us means we fuck half of the other couple solo with knowledge and consent of your better half. Open marriage to us means we fuck the other wife/hubby without prior knowledge or consent of your better half. Getting right down to it, these phrases are merely semantics in the modern day Lifestyle experiences for couple who swing i.e., have sex with or fuck other partners outside of your primary relationship, wife/hubby/bf/gf. There ought to be no mystery about the phrases since most couples, ourselves included, do have sex with another couple's wife or hubby out of sheer necessity and sexual desires since both do have careers and cannot always swing together. Case in point, we did a f/m/f threesome with our travel agent whose hubby is on a off-shore duty one month out and a month with wife. Then I fucked her separately on many a times while her hubby was away. And, so does wife have sex with other guys with or without my knowledge but with full consent to enjoy sex with a variety of male partners. Question-what do you call this relationship that does not have emotional attachment but is purely of sexual nature that is the two play and have intercourse.
  12. Likewise, we have enjoyed every episode of Swingercast, and, practised what we have learnt when we interact sexually with another couple. We do go all out with the other couple for all sexual activities, upto and including intercourse with the other wife/husband, many times, bareback for full enjoyment and intimate contact with each other's genitals which leads to ejaculation and fulfillment of our sexual desires and multiple orgasms. Sorry to say we have missed these episodes. We do not have any contact information for John and Ellie.
  13. You are right on! We also enjoy seeing real couples play and swap mates and engage in all sexual activities that includes real one-on-one intercourse with someone else's wife/gf/bf/hubby. The porn movies with actors are simply a turn-of, and wife does not enjoy them. We would just as soon speculate about doing a full swap with another couple or friends and fuck him/her to mind-blowing orgasms. We are always on the lookout for friendly couples open to sex that are willing to play for a full swing or swap. These amateur movies are worth watching because they will turn on a couple and make them want to swing and swap for sexual fun and sexual intercourse of the first order.
  14. Lots and lots of women for me and men for wife-none of them celebrities. Gfs, Bfs and lately a female travel agent we met. Asked her if she can arrange lifestyle resort vacations. She is still vanilla. So it took talking and educating her about swinging lifestyle. Hope to fuck her one of these days when we swap partners for play leading to full swing and intercourse. We ared excited about the possibilities.
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