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  1. We just listened to one of their cd's last night. That is our personal favorite. So cool to see someone else appreciates it as much as we do! J
  2. We agree with and appreciate all of the posts so far. Pairbond had a good point...what makes someone think that their privacy is different or more important than ours. This is something that we have also run across. We have actually had people say "We can't send you grated pics or tell you our first names because we need to be discreet." Whenever anyone says that, the bells start going off. DING, DING...these people are not serious about doing this . We have kids and are professionals too. What makes them any different then us, except for that they have no intention of meeting us. HNG was new term for us, but boy have we seen some potential canidates. Thanks again for all your input!
  3. The Mr. and I played with a couple this weekend. He only uses viagra when we swing, for the purpose of staying hard in between rounds. This night, he came 3 times and stayed hard the whole 3 hours. He was more impressive than normal that night. I give Viagra a great big YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  4. I think that it all depends on what kind of mood you are in. if you are in a naughty mood, hubby and i like: Nine Inch Nails...Pretty Hate Machine, the whole cd is a great "fuck me hard and fast" soundtrack Prodigy, and a group that no one has probably ever heard of... God Lives Under Water (our personal favorite) are also good to get me into that bad girl mood. If you are more in a fuck me nice and slow, ooh right there mood: Best of Sade...i can't believe no one mentioned her...she oozes sex( just listened to her last night.. ) Enigma's first Cd also great Hubby and i are also big fans of the Cure's Disintegration Just our 2 cents
  5. Thanks, EBF. I thinnk cells are the way to go. You can always turn them off. I think you can even program them to ignore certain numbers. Actually, we just had a nice call with somebody we gave our number to last week. So we're feeling much more positive about things.
  6. Wow!! Didn't expect so may replies so quickly. We would like to say "thank you" to everyone! For the record, we didn't send any nude pics with face (we didn't have any handy), although we were going to do that today. However, we did send g-rated pics and nudes/x-rated pics without the faces. So I guess we lucked out. She (He?) sent us quite a few nude pics of her, and I guess she was impatient for us to respond equally. I guess that you have to be really careful putting pics of yourself out there. However, aren't you equally nervous putting your phone # out there? A few years ago, we gave out a phone # and determined we weren't interested after a few calls. After we tried to tell him this, we had to endure phone calls at all hours until the guy finally got bored or got the message that we weren't interested. We don't want to be cautious to the point of paranoia, but we do want to be confident that pics of ourselves won't end up public and that we won't be harrassed over the phone. But we REALLY DO want to connect with people, and meet nice people like yourselves. So how do you balance caution and friendliness, and still manage to be real and meet cool people?
  7. The Mr and I had a very strange experience recently. We are fairly new to this site and to swinging. We have been with 2 other couples, but are trying to meet people locally. We belong to the swinglifestyle.com site, and have had lots of great response from our profile. Here is the issue: One of the couples we have been talking to seemed really interested in meeting us. The woman and I began to correspond a lot, through email and IM. She asked for and received several pics I have not sent anyone else. She then asked me for nude shots of me with the face included. She said that she wanted to make sure i was real, even though i sent her several pics with my face already. Well, i didn't have any nudes with my face, so i asked the hubby to take a few of me over the weekend. We had a very busy weekend and did not even get to download these pics until today. The whole weekend she sent me emails asking where they were. When we finally went to send them to her, there was a nasty email from her calling us fakes and telling us she blocked our email so don't bother contacting her. Is this an example of the dreaded "games" that many couples mention in their profiles and say they don't want? We are not into games and would never make a promise we wouldn't keep, but Damn... swinging is not the only thing we have going on in our life (Kids, jobs, laundry, yard work....) Is it just us, or did she overreact to that fact that I did not jump to it quick enough? Is this to be expected when talking and meeting online? I did send her an email (even though she said she blocked email from us) to express our shock, but did not apologize. We don't feel we did anything wrong. Did we? Maybe we are better off if that is how she reacts to not seeing me nude. Any new insight or input would be welcomed. Please help these newbies out! Thanks.
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