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  1. 50's lady thanks so very much for u'r input about telling. u saved me money now i don't have to buy a tee shirt with "i have herpes" on it. LOL. the 2 couples that r swingers we know, we plan to tell them as to why we can't and won't swing with them. all our other friends we will just go on as nothing has happened, as that is the point the dr was making with what he said. as far a swinging for u the suggestion about the herpes group may be a route u may want to consider down the road. thanks again, and good luck. d&j
  2. in defense of the dr saying keep your mouth shut he was referring to the fact that I wanted to tell all my friends. not just the ones that could have been swing partners if and when J had gone into remission with her cancer and we had pursued swinging, which we definitely will not now. I just wanted to give our friends the choice of remaining our friends knowing we had herpes. The dr seemed to think as long as we were not sleeping with them and not having outbreaks that there was no need in telling them. Which bring to a point a good question for 50's lady and those in the know. When you got herpes did you tell your family and ALL your non swinging friends you had it? If yes, what were their reactions, and did you lose a lot of them. thanks, d&j
  3. our story goes like this. j (her 61) and i (d 64) have been married almost 6 yrs. j has been fighting cancer on and off since 1997. she got breast metastis bone cancer in 03 around the time we started thinking about swinging. we met a few couples, but due to other factors (lived in seperate states for a yr or so due to work) we never were able to hook up with another couple. after getting the bone cancer with all the meds and the constant pain from it she lost almost all her desires to have sex (was a SUPER HORNEY LADY BEFORE) which i understand. well a few wks back i got a sore on my foreskin NEVER EVER BEFORE HAD ONE. WE WENT TO DR AND HE DID BLOOD WORK J IS HSV 2 AND I AM HSV 1. that was a totally shock as to where it came from. dr said it can lay dorment for yrs then show up one day. he also said as someone stated previous that a VERY HIGH presentage of folks have it, and may not know. i have gave blood on and off over the yrs, and would have thought they would have checked and got back with me if it had showed up. j has had to have numerous blood transfusions due the the bone cancer, and some folks say it could have come from that, and some say due to it being in the nervous system it can't be passed on thru blood. when we learned that we had it i wanted to tell all our friends (not swinging) that we had it, but dr said to keep my mouth shut about it. we have a couple of couples that r swingers one just moved here and the other lives in another state and will locate here. i went by dr office yest and got a copy of the blood tests and plan to show the couple that just moved here the tests results, and let them know we would love to be friends as we r now, but not swinging friends if they want to be. i plan on leaving it entirly up to them with no hard feeling if they say no thanks. going to do the same with the other couple when they come back down again. sorry for being so long, but just wanted folks to know u can get herpes and not swing at all. we did and it SUCKS. thanks, d&j
  4. Yes we are for sure, and love it. We just joined a couple places this year here in Tennessee. It is great to feel the air flow through my balls and over my skin. I happened to get short-changed in the pecker department but must have got in line twice for balls. J. (she) had done it before, and I had only done it in very small crowds. I however didn't think twice when we got there the first time, kinda seemed natural to me. We also go around the house nude as long as weather permitting. Don't want those nuts freezing.
  5. My personal opinion is that if I were you I would approach your daughter in a mature and honest way about this. If she is the one that has a block on you on the site, maybe that is why she has distanced herself as she is disappointed that you have never opened up to her about it. I feel that this approach would definately be better and more comfortable than to be in a club in the middle of some action and look up to see them there. Just my 2 cents worth, Good luck.
  6. j was involved in fmf with her x. it proved to be a disaster for her (all his way and later a affair with the other lady) we were discussing fantasies when she told me about it (turn on for me) we talked about it and i wanted her to have a pleasant experience with me if she agreed to another try. she did. we found sls met a few couples and were about to loose our cherries when her breast cancer mestasised back to bone. everything went on hold then (2003) and still is. one day we are hoping it will go into remission. then we can go exploring our senior wild side. thanks d & j
  7. A long spell back we figured out that was what a "vanilla" person was (non-swinger), but what we want to know is who coined the term, and how does it get its (association) meaning?
  8. In regards to licking mrs oh likes to have her neck, ears, eye lids, in fact her whole body lightly licked and kissed. this is not to say a slobbery (like Rover your St. Bernard type licking) type though. As to Julie stating about the roof of her mouth (not the dental exam) type that was the way I learned many many ice cream seasons ago growing up in detroit as a teen. Light flickering on the roof and around the tongue sucking on the top and bottom lips. I'm 60 and thought that was the way to French kiss. Oh well, I guess old dogs can learn. I am however curious as do the ladies out there like to have the cheeks (ass) licked and kissed as well as up and down the legs? Maybe an old guy still can learn.
  9. didn't read all of the replies, but what about the american civil liberities union (a.c.l.u.) they take on difficult cases. states also has n.l.r.b. national labor relation bureau that mediate cases. not sure if it would apply here tho. a.c.l.u. i think is best bet. good luck!!!
  10. After careful consideration my wife and I chose other. The reason being that there wasn't any ALL THE ABOVE place in the selections. We LOVE it all
  11. knowing that you love her and she loves you, and you want to see her happy and satisified then thats what it's about. also she went home with you that's all that counts. my opinion with mfm is that it is for the enjoyment of all especially for the female. she gets the well deserved attention. that's my thoughts whatever it's worth
  12. we suggest a colon cleansing. they have places that do this. they also sell colon cleansing kits to do it yourself. you might want to do this before the dp. if you are going to do it (anal) with just your hubby you might want to add that to your foreplay. we sometimes give each other enemas. after we are good and cleaned out a candle light bath together washing each other paying attention to all the hard special places.
  13. male half here. being the whore of the two (in my single younger days) a lot of the ladies that would go down on me didn't like you to cum in their mouths. i had to learn to control it had to keep them happy for repeats. this had a reverse affect on me. i then had it in my head that they may not like it so it became difficult to do even if they wanted it. i now have my soulmate who i know LOVES it. now i just let it all go. it's all in the mind. heheh
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