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funforall

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About funforall

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  • Birthday 09/11/1972

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Pahrump, NV
  • Interests
    motorcycling, jetsking, anything active
  • Occupation
    military/financial consultant
  • Swinging Experience
    4 years

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  • SLS Name
    Pahrumpians
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Red Rooster

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  1. Thanks for all the info. We decided to keep this name seperate from our others. Just in case we have a question that we don't want our sgreen name attached. Thanks again for the great advice.
  2. Just a quick question.... Is it a good idea to link screen names together? For example.....your screen name for this board is it the same for SLS, SDC,AFF and ect.... Or, is it better to have them all different in case you meet someone on a site that you don't really care for and if you have the same screen name then they will be able to find you on the other sites? Our screen name for this site is different than our SLS but we were thinking of changing this one to match that one. Good, bad or indifferent? Thanks, funforall
  3. How do you do this properly? I've tried a couple of times and each time it looks like I went a couple of rounds with Freddy Krueger. I have pretty big balls and the sleeping bag is so soft and velvety that when I try to run a razor over them it snags like a bear trap. That's when the blood shows up and the crying begins. I like the grass above the pole and can trim that pretty easily to make it presentable. It is when I get to the nether regions that the steady hands with nerves of steel come into play. Since the making my fellas slick and smooth doesn't work with razors, I thought a trim would do. Well now it is prickly and feels like I have five o'clock shadow. No woman in her right mind wants their face rubbing against that. I don't like pain or have the time to pluck them out 1 by 1. That leaves me with Nair. Now I don't know about you, but I'm not sure I want to put a chemical that makes hair fall out near my sensitive jewels. It is pretty tender down there and not sure what the reaction would be. I'm not a guiney pig. So, what do you fellas use to make your package slick and smooth as a baby ass? Thanks for taking the time to help a brother out.
  4. Thank you so much for the great advice. I feel a little better now. I told her the same things your husband told you. Once again there is no pressure just want her to chew on my side for a bit. Let it all soak in.
  5. Almost same situation here. Here is a little of my past. I had 2 FMF\'s before I met T. They were good and fun but then my ex started using sex to get what she wanted. I hated that she would use sex as a treat and punishment. We divorced and went our seperate ways. I then met T on the internet and she was a 12 years older than me. I was up front in telleing her about my past and what my plans were for the future. IE.... no marriage, lots of kinky sex like 3 ways and group sex. She divulged some of her past too. She didn\'t want marriage either just someone to hang out with and be fuck buddies. We hit it off. She never had a FMF but has had a couple of MFM\'s and swung with her ex a couple of times. She even went out and hooked them up with other couples. I told her I always wanted to try the MFM and she wanted to try the FMF. She brought me to my first swing club where we had sex in front of a room full of people. We were together about 4 years and feelings evolved into much more than we both bargained for. She then wanted marriage and so did I. We then had 2 FMF\'s and we then got married shortly after. We talk or should I say, I always brought it up about the MFM\'s and she is always vauge about what happened. I want to know details since I have yet to have one. I want to live it through her eyes. I then talk dirty to her when we are fooling around and take out some toys and pretend that there is someone else there with us. She gets into it and sucks one while I fuck her. I make comments like do you want 2 dicks? and she always says yes fuck me and give it to me. Great turn on and the visuals blow me away. Then I try to talk to her out of the bedroom and she is very quiet about it. It\'s like pulling teeth. I tell her all the time I would like her to bring it up from time to time but it always falls on deaf ears. We even met 2 different couples I met through a Swinger site and we all hit it off well and nothing ever happened. We are still talking to the one couple and plan on getting together but she never seems interested even though she says she is up for it. So I would like to know too. How do we know what they want? Do they want too or not? I\'m not into games and can\'t read minds. Sorry to hiJack but it seems like we want the same answer. LOL
  6. The first 3 some T and I have had was a FMF. She was nervous as it was her first time with another woman. We had fun but T didn't get the full effect as the other woman didn't like oral sex. T felt like she missed out on something as did I. T really enjoyed kissing and feeling the other lady up but wanted more. That's what brought us to our second FMF. This one went off great as the other woman was experienced and really knew what to do. T also got to experience the whole package and really enjoyed herself enough to say she wants to do them more. Now it is my turn for the MFM. T has experience in this dept. but I never been in one. I nervous and excited at the same time. We have fantasies of picking some lucky guy up in a bar and going to a motel. All we've done so far is fantasize and talk about it. We will put our plan into action when I return from overseas. LOL
  7. Here is R's results..... Your Type is ESFJ Extroverted Sensing Feeling Judging Strength of the preferences % 67 12 12 33 ESFJ type description by D.Keirsey ESFJ type description by J. Butt Qualitative analysis of your type formula You are: distinctively expressed extrovert slightly expressed sensing personality slightly expressed feeling personality moderately expressed judging personality
  8. We enjoy this position very much for the same reasons everyone else here does. It gives us the closeness of face to face while doing something taboo. LOL We often perform the DP trick in this position as well and enjoy the looks on each others faces when we do. The pillow trick makes it easy and comfortable for her. Hope you keep trying as you will find it rewarding. R
  9. T is a lot more experienced than me. She and her ex were into the lifestyle. She had a couple of pretty good stories of her past that I really enjoyed. I on the other hand never had sex in a room with anyone else in it let alone joining. LOL Save for my first wife as she was pressuring me for marriage, wanted to know why I wouldn't marry her. Looking for a way out I said there was things that I wanted to do before I got married. She said name them. I said a threesome. Next night she brought home a girlfriend of hers and we had a fantastic time. LOL She said there would be a lot more of that and the next thing I know I was saying I do. LOL Glad to say that marriage ended badly for I was able to meet and marry my dream girl. She told me about her past experiences and even brought me to my first swinger club where we proceeded to have sex in a room full of onlooking people. This is the first relationship that I have ever had where I could be myself and say what is on my mind. We talk about everything and feel we are on a completely different wave length than anyone else.
  10. I agree with intuition advice. T & I had our fantasie come up in the heat of the moment. She asked me what mine was. I was hesitant at first as I thought it was a trick and didn't want her to feel insecure. I finally said fantasy speaking 2 women would be nice. After all it is supposed to be everyguys fantasy. LOL She had a co-worker that wanted to be with another woman and T never been with a woman. They thought it would be fun and set up a date for play. Now I'm into older women (I'm 32 and T is 43) and this was her first woman on woman experience. She said she wished she would of done it earlier. LOL Wasn't as good as she hoped for as they were both inexperienced. This got the ball rolling. I had a female co-worker that enjoyed having threesomes and we started talking. She was game so we brought her into the mix and T enjoyed it alot more than the first and even started talking about the next one. Now what I'm getting at is she went out of her way for me and made my fantasies into reality. We are glad they worked out as people stated before that sometimes fantasies should stay just that......a fantasy. Now, I want to do for her what she did for me. We talk and talk and talk about it. At first I was like I'm not sure but the more we discuss the better I feel and now I'm actually looking forward to it. So is she. We even made up our rules of engagement. LOL It hasn't happened yet as I'm in Iraq right now but it does make for some good e-mailing. LOL When are going to hit some clubs when I get home and search some swinger sites when I get home to find the elusive single male that knows this is for her pleasure. Don't want someone that gets attached and knows what his job is. LOL So all in all to make a long story short I think you should ask him his fantasies. Most guys after telling you thiers will ask you yours. Just be honest and reassure him as of now it is a fantasy. Then start discussing and it. After awhile it will just seem natural to make it a reality. Fun for all
  11. For missus and I there is a 12 year difference. When people meet us they say "you go girl!", and wonder what her secret is to keeping a young guy like myself. LOL In her first marriage she was the younger half by at least 10 years. I love older women and find it harder to keep up with her than the girls my own age of 31. LOL We are new to the whole swing scene and looking forward to our first encounter. Through the help and guidance of this site we are sure it will go well. Thanks all
  12. Well I took the test and am surprised at how kinky I was. I scored a 485. I will have to let T take the test when she gets home to see how kinky she is.
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