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chocvanillaswrl

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About chocvanillaswrl

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    Contributor

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple (Straight Male, Straight Female)
  • Location
    Michigan
  • Interests
    Travel, Dancing
  1. We just wanted to say hello to you both since my b/f actually has family in the Maryland/DC area and we are actually flying out there next weekend to spend some time with them. Any information you could provide on clubs out there would be great as we talked about maybe trying one in the area, since we would not have to worry about running into any of our friends or co-workers all the way out there Also, we have been looking for a place that gives couples massages, so if you happen to know of one of those, that would be great as well. He has told me of places he used to go to back in his college days, but they were for guys only (no fair!), so this time we said we wanted to find a place to enjoy together. Hope you guys have a great weekend, hope to talk to you again soon!
  2. Thank you for the compliment, it is greatly appreciated! Our big thing is that even though all this is new to us, we will approach it just as we do everything in life, with honesty open communication and common sense. We believe that the most important part of any relationship is communication, trust, and honesty, so since we focus on these Big 3 characteristics already, it is nothing new to us as we explore new avenues in our relationship. We are a team (although he is the faster typist so if there are ever any misspellings blame it on him) so everything from these messages to meeting new people has been agreed on to be done together, that way everything is out and open from the beginning. Thanks again for taking the time to respond. One thing we can guarantee is that we will be honestly consistent and consistently honest!
  3. Thanks for taking the time to reply to our post! We are both very open and honest in any communication we have with people about this as we make it known upfront that we are not looking for any physical contact whatsoever. It may sound stern, but we feel this does not leave any gray area for misunderstanding. We guess that some people will always like to put labels on others for whatever reason, but it was nice to find this board because after reading through a number of the posts, you guys seem really open and honest, and that is what we like. Thanks again for the reply!
  4. Hi! We are new to swinging. We always plan on being upfront and honest with everyone about what we are looking for, but it seems that some swingers view the fact that we are a couple who wants to only watch or be watched with no contact at all to mean that we are not really being "serious about this", or that we are "not really swingers, soft or otherwise". We are not into labels at all, but we found it interesting that we have heard this view on more than one occasion. We figure as long as we are honest about expectations upfront, then what is the big deal, but it appears that there is a lot of negativity around the whole voyeur/exhibitionist thing. Is this true, or did we just run into discussions with a few "bad apples" who don't represent the typical view? We look forward to hearing everyone's perspective on this. Thanks!
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