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  1. We have a few: 1. Same-room only 2. No penetration or ejaculation without a condom (at least not ON "T" and especially NOT in her mouth) 3. No spanking 4. No anal 5. No male/male 6. RESPECT at all times.
  2. well we swung with a pregnant couple, and it was pretty cool. She was extremely attractive anyway (probably out of my league?) and she had just a very small "pooch" belly which drives me wild anyway. We did not have intercourse but enjoyed a LOT of oral!
  3. subscribed... and looking for job openings.
  4. 50mg. I tried 100 and it only made the heartburn worse, and 50mg works fine. Sometimes I may do 50mg and then a couple hours later take another 50mg with no additional heartburn as compared to a single 50mg. I only have one left and am short on cash so next time I may cut it in half and see how that works
  5. - Length of time it took to work 15 minutes or so, I can tell because I start feeling flushed/warm all over. And a little bit of blurriness. I always say to T that "the afterburners just kicked in" - How hard you were compared to otherwise not using it EXTREMELY hard. I'm 33 with no problems normally, but this stuff makes me HARD. And it's also LONGER and THICKER. Yeah we've measured, and we're talking 3/4 of an inch longer! - Negative side effects A slight "floating" feeling, I've had an upset stomach once but that could have been nerves. Slightly blurred vision, very slight headache. Every time, though, I have heartburn the next morning. I never get heartburn other than when I take it. - Serious side effects if any you have had none - Down time between rounds 20-30 minutes. Normally I'm more like 45 minutes. Another comment, other than it makes me HUGE (well relatively speaking), it makes me last MUCH longer. Which is good except it's ironic... with "V" I can do it more often, so it's not a "problem" to cum "normally". A few times I'm so TIRED after working to orgasm, I just don't feel like doing it again. Phycially it's working, but I'm dead tired!
  6. Yeah it was pretty busy. One sign-in sheet was full and another had about 10-15 lines taken up. Three single ladies, and more single men than normal. We almost always play with the door/window shade open and the chain up... we had tons of people watching the entire night. No "hook up" though. Maybe we should talk and see how it goes.
  7. Sorry to hear that's going on in your relationship... but since you asked... Our sex life is superb! Wife just figured out how to multiple orgasm about 2 years ago, and since then she has out-orgasmed me by at least 3 or 4 to one. Sometimes she cums 8 or more times in one session. I usually orally please her at least twice before she gets "ticklish", then she cums a couple more times thru intercourse... then she's OK for the oral again. Now, at the club... people watching and/or participating with us are AMAZED at how easily she can cum. Two females that were in on a same-room-sex thing last Friday said they were JEALOUS of her. But of course it's more than orgasms... she also gets all the other attention she needs. Have you talked to your husband about these issues? Is it possible he doesn't KNOW that you are unhappy?
  8. Ft. Wayne? Never heard of it. We go to Club Utopia all the time... Looks like we have a couple "locals" here on this thread. SW Michigan, we grew up there... and we go to Ft> Wayne about once a month. Going there this Friday as a matter of fact. Were there last Friday as well
  9. I'm gonna be a little blunt here, from a man's perspective BUT my wife has read this and TOTALLY AGREES. Why would he say anything negative about her? He doesn't have any negative feelings, you do. He'd be lying if he said something negative about her. Why is it his responsibility to 'stroke' your ego back? He didn't bruise it. MAYBE he kissed a little 'deeper' than you were planning, but you did say kissing was OK and it doesn't appear that you made very clear rules. Based on your post, it looks like your problem ended up being kissing 'in general' not just deep kissing. I think you would have been upset whether it was deep kissing or just lightly "making out". If you felt uncomfortable about kissing in general (which it looks like you do since you complain that he doesn't kiss you anymore) then you should have said "no kissing" or at least been more specific. If you didn't KNOW it would bother you and it did bother you, you can't blame him. Your post continually says, "I was ashamed of myself", etc. This is not HIS problem. Of course he was attracted to her, otherwise he wouldn't hvae wanted to have sex with her. You should know that and it shouldn't bother you. What you should be focusing on is that when you said, 'stop' he immediately obeyed your wishes and didn't throw a fit. That's about all he could have done. Have you TOLD HIM that? That you really are hurt? Even if you have, you still need to tell him what he can do about it. He can't read your mind. And even if he understands that you are hurt, and even WHY you are hurt, what can he do about it? He didn't do anything wrong, other than MAYBE a little too much kissing. He can apologize to you for how you felt, but what else can he do? I'll be up-front, we both think that the problem lies on your end. Neither of us can think of anything he can do to help ya other than be understanding and a good listener. You want him to "tell" you stuff, but there's nothing to tell. For some, probably. Not for us. Sidenote: we are both reading the Dr. Laura book "Proper Care and Feeding for Husbands". She's an idiot many times but she makes some great points and somehow has gotten into a man's psyche. I'd suggest you read the first 2 chapters and try to use that advice in this situation. Seriously.
  10. Ok, I'm sorry but that's just SICK. If you are turned on by the fact that a CHILD could be HEARING or SEEING you in a sexual encounter, then you need to see counseling and FAST. Especially if it's with someone other than your spouse! As for us, we never swing in ANYONE'S home, only at the clubs. But if we did swing at home, NEVER EVER EVER with kids around. Plus if there's kids sleeping or in the other room, you can let go and have FUN. Based on the loudness coming from the rooms at our club, contantly, all night, I can't see how you CAN'T wake the kids up. I know my wife and I have a hard time keeping quiet on our own!
  11. Easy. Just yell out... "I wanna swap my wife to another couple". Anyone answers, there's a swinger for ya. Just kidding. But no I don't know of any distinctive jewelry or "sign".
  12. Ok, on our trip to Vegas at the Green Door (look for our post on our story of what happened!) the wife and I were being exhibitionists and at one point there was at least 13 people watching us. When we finished, one guy and a girl "hooked up" and she gave him oral as a few people watched. After a while I guess he decided to go on his own and just jerked off... I mean WILDLY... fast and hard... moaning and walking around. Really weird. One girl (who if you read my other story, was a VIRGIN) was about 6 feet away when he made the "cum grunt". She let out a little scream and RAN away like she was scared of him. To which I said, "relax, it's not a gun, he's not gonna shoot you". 13 people instantly cracked up... and the dude "lost it" too... I don't think he ever did cum.
  13. Makes me kinda happy that most of our friends live about an hour away. We moved about 6 years ago and don't have much time to find new "local" friends. So we don't hang out THAT often, and when we do there's at least several days of planning, or an email saying, "hey are you guys busy this weekend" so we can take some time to either make up a reasonable excuse (usually "can't find a babysitter") or say "yep". The main problem we have IS babysitters... our club is 2 hours away and allows overnight stays, so we usually sleep there and get home around 11am the next morning. Our parents watch the kids but always wonder why we aren't home at 3am after the bars close or something. One time they called our cell at 3:30am, no emergency but we had to make an excuse on why we weren't at home yet. I guess if it came down to it, all of our friends wouldn't have a problem with our swinging, but we'd prefer they don't know. Our parents, on the other hand MUST NOT find out.
  14. Yeah, I said that, didn't I. When I wrote the "review" I was thinking of "participating" single ladies... and the ladies on Wednesday night didn't and wouldn't participate.
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