We are new to swinging and Have not done it yet. We want to get into it. I have a question that I want to ask without offending anyone. I don't know any of you so please don't take this as personal.
Any time on shows such as HBO's Real Sex or websites with ad pics etc.... Why is it when they show swingers they are usually...
A. Old
B. Way over weight
C. Ugly
D. Not at all attractive
E. Strange
I know that all are not. I am just wondering why this is. I am not saying we are perfect but, compared to what I have seen I just can't see it happening with those people. I do understand that looks are not everything. Like I said, please don't flame me. I just wondered where the at least normal size, looks and personality people are.