MrPeepers

My point was that all you ever see frome the media etc are the people that you wouldn't want to even be in the same room with. We are not looking for perfect people, just at least average. This brings up some more questions... Why are most "older" over 40? Why are there so many strange people into it? When people say they are disease free, how do you trust them? When doing oral do most people use protection? To me oral using a condom etc would ruin it. I know about the STD thing. Thanx

We are new to swinging and Have not done it yet. We want to get into it. I have a question that I want to ask without offending anyone. I don't know any of you so please don't take this as personal. Any time on shows such as HBO's Real Sex or websites with ad pics etc.... Why is it when they show swingers they are usually... A. Old B. Way over weight C. Ugly D. Not at all attractive E. Strange I know that all are not. I am just wondering why this is. I am not saying we are perfect but, compared to what I have seen I just can't see it happening with those people. I do understand that looks are not everything. Like I said, please don't flame me. I just wondered where the at least normal size, looks and personality people are.