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Well, fall semester has started and I'm in full swing at school so I haven't posted since summer (I think???) but I saw this thread and I couldn't resist!! My hubby and I met in one of those ain't-never-gonna-work-situations...I was dumb enough to get married at 16, and my husband was that guy's best friend. WAS LOL My current hubby was coming over to visit w/ my ex husband and I started noticing that we were talking more than they were. We just got along really well, and things were bad with 1st husband anyways, and things grew from there. We went thru a lot of crap at first from family, friends that said there was no way it could ever work with a start like that...but here we are, 10 years later so there ya go!

"No Games" is something I say in my online ads. What I mean by that is pretty much what everyone else here has said...I don't want anyone that is going to be anything but honest. Once I was contacted by a gal that was married and didn't want her jealous hubby to find out. No thanks!!

My job is cleaning houses, mostly for well-off or rich people. I have become friends with some of them and get along with all of them. Now I'm not saying I've never met any snobs in my line of work...but hardly any. Everyone I work for treats me with respect and I'm pretty sure that they respect the fact that I started my own business and I'm working. Class is definitely on the inside, not what you have on the outside. I'm glad everyone here seems to understand that!

It hurts a little, but for me that's part of the turn-on. I'm not a pain freak or anything, but if something hurts just a little I like it. The more you do it, the easier it gets. Keys to enjoyable anal sex for me are: 1. Clit stimulation (at the same time) 2. have to be VERY horny! 3. lube (either the kind in a tube or the kind from a slippery pussy ) I cum very hard and very fast from anal sex...LOVE it!

I think I might mess around with another woman while pregnant if I knew her very well, but the idea of another man fucking me while I was pregnant with my hubby's baby? Nah, not for me. Vice versa...I wouldn't be comfortable with my husband having sex with another pregnant woman. What's the reason? Just seems weird to me...

Wow. In my opinion, there is going to be way too much baggage to stay together. I understand that people make mistakes. But how many chances can you give her? I know that if I cheated on my hubby, I might get a second chance but that's it. Likewise, if he cheated I'd give him another chance but after that forget it! She has shown a total lack of respect for you and your wishes, not once but several times. I don't blame you at all for spying...any person that did the stuff she did should expect to get spied on. I think that if you stay together, you will always wonder about what she's doing behind your back. One of the worst things about being cheated on is feeling stupid, like you were the last to know. Mr. Alura said that he would do whatever it took to keep his marriage together...thing is, Mrs. Alura would never disrespect him that way. Especially not repeatedly!! I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide.

Even really great people get STD's unfortunately... However, I really can't imagine giving oral to a guy with a condom on.

Mork & Mindy - That's a funny mental picture...Mindy would never!! You could talk Mork into it I bet... Mr. & Mrs. C probably swing just because they seem so 'normal'... What about Mulder & Scully?

I'm with Alura on this one. One could argue that marijuana is illegal, so of course should be included in "D&D FREE" - but I don't consider marijuana or alcohol to be included. I assume disease means anything you could get by having sex with each other.

Hubby and I watch them together. How could watching people have sex not make you horny? We usually fast forward through the plot...well, because all the plots in our movies are stupid. So we only watch the actual sex. But maybe we'd like a porn with a good story line - can't say for sure 'cause we still haven't found one!!! I do remember my ex watching a porn and I got very upset about it. I think it was different with him versus my husband because with ex, I was not confident or sure about our relationship. With my husband, I know he loves me, and I know those porn chicks can't compare to me in his eyes!

Okay, this is gonna sound really bad....but my husband was my ex's best friend. Ahem...they are not best friends anymore, but believe it or not, they do still talk occasionally. Anyways, it must have been the right thing to do 'cause we're still together 8 yrs. later w/ two awesome kids!