Thank you for all of your replys. I feel like I am the only one out there who feels like their sex life isn't what it usd to be. I love my husband dearly, and I just want him to be as romantic with me in the bedroom as he is with others. I want him to take time to please me, like he takes time to please others. Am I asking for too much in a married relationship? Although having other sexual partners is exciting and adds spice to our lives and we llove that aspect of it, I still need to know that I'm not boring to him. I do know he loves me, am I asking too much of a married relationship? Does it always have to turn stale after a few years? Doesn't anyone else have this problem???? If not, than I will admit to myself that I am asking too much of any marriage