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Thank you for all of your replys. I feel like I am the only one out there who feels like their sex life isn't what it usd to be. I love my husband dearly, and I just want him to be as romantic with me in the bedroom as he is with others. I want him to take time to please me, like he takes time to please others. Am I asking for too much in a married relationship? Although having other sexual partners is exciting and adds spice to our lives and we llove that aspect of it, I still need to know that I'm not boring to him. I do know he loves me, am I asking too much of a married relationship? Does it always have to turn stale after a few years? Doesn't anyone else have this problem???? If not, than I will admit to myself that I am asking too much of any marriage

To all you males out there is Sex just Sex no matter who its with? Do you take as much time pleasing your wife as you do pleasing other women? Is there as much romance in your bedroom as is in others? I ask this because it seems that in our relationship, sex is just sex anymore. We seem to spend more time pleasing others than we do each other. Sad isn't it? I ask all of you males out there to search your hearts, and tonight take time to please your spouse. Make them feel special. Let them know how much you love them in the bedroom as well as everyday life. Have fun tonight.

alabamafuntonig, you are one of the few people who actually gets it. Loving one another does not mean to have sex with one another. I like you! You really have it together! Maybe I'm so impressed because you actually said what I have believed all along. That this is not how God would have us live our lives, but we do make our own choices. He may be a disappointed in us from time to time, but he is always there when we need him. .