BlueStagg

I think she would struggle focusing on the other guy with me there. She did say she would enjoy hearing another woman moaning from the other room, just doesn't want to visual... me? I love watching my wife

A few months ago my wife and I dove into the lifestyle. So far we've only experienced MFM scenarios as my wife was not ready for me to be with another woman. I would never pressure her and I'm happy we made it this far. Recently she has shown more interest in allowing me to play as well. With that said, she's not sure she has any interest in actually watching me. She did say that she may be open to a couple swap where we play in separate rooms.. do many couples loom for this? Most I've come across wish to watch their spouse. Curious for everyone's thoughts

If there is any hope of it going further you have to respect her decision now with no expectation to go further. There is no need to dive in faster your wife is ready for.

Bingo. Very well said

I agree. Considering my wife needed to to even consider sleeping with another man showed me she was more than content with me. Especially since we were and still do have sex all the time. Now that she enjoys other men, it does not mean she's not satisfied with me... just that she also enjoys other men.

You have to have the conversation with the clothes on... just sit down and talk about it.. if you can't communicate about it, you aren't ready

I think you'll get a different answer wherever you look. I consider my wife a hot wife. She can pick a guy to fuck but I get to watch/join in. Solo play is not in our cards right now. I only fuck her

Bravo !!

Great thread! I call my wife a hotwife. That said there are things we don't do that some may do. She does not play alone. I like to be involved and see her pleasure. I definitely do not identify as a cuckold because my understanding is there is a humiliation aspect to that. As far as the divorce thing goes, I agree that once there is cheating then it's no longer a hotwife situation. To me there has to be consent for it to be a hotwife relationship. Even though my wife has sex with other people, she is not cheating on me. Couples in my situation I would imagine have a lower than average divorce rate, due to the openness that this lifestyle brings

I fully agree with you.

Hotwife couples have a 70% failure rate as in divorce ??

Hahah Smurf's! That made me laugh. Maybe he was stuck work related, but he wasn't called in to testify last minute. It doesn't work that way

Yea I actually enjoy that my wife looks at me and reaches to me while she's being fucked

I COULD easily get off masturbating watching but I don't like to. My recovery isn't super fast so I like to ravage my wife once they are done. 2- is pretty much where I'm at

So so amazing!