Speaking on behalf of my single friends and I, all I can say is....don't do it. You are NOT a single male. You will be fighting an uphill battle. Maybe you're on here looking for permission. You're not getting it from anyone here. Quite possibly you are here to find out how to CHEAT on your wife without her finding out. Rest assured, we almost always know. Only question will be....will she hold it over your head...or use it against you in divorce court. Good luck. Enough of my rant