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Hi people, so my wife has agreed to give it another try with the same guy. I would really like to have your advice on how to do the threesome best this time around. Should we watch porn together first before doing sex. Anything specific you suggest to make it more erotic and comfortable for the wife?

Yes, she wants me to be with her. And I kept touching her. Perhaps she wanted more involvement. Based on suggestions above though, looks like I should not bring up the topic at all for some weeks now.

Hi friends, We are a married couple and had our first MMF couple of days back, I would like to share the experience (for newbies) and get advice on the next steps (from experienced ones). For context, We are 29m 26f, married for 2 years. We come from a conservative background and have been talking about threesome/swap for last few months. It was my (the guy) idea and my wife was hesitant about it. Took a few months to convince and make her willing to try at least. We met couple of guys casually 3-4 months back but didn't work out. Then we connected with a guy 2 months back, (Mr. A) on Tinder, I let my wife chat from her account to get comfortable. We did video chat couple of times. Finally we planned to have a casual meet in a park near our home and thought that based on that meet we will have fun meet immediately or some other time. So the day came. The guy came over near our home in a public park. We three talked casually. And also about expectations that we are new and not looking for anything rough/kinky. The guy was decent and agreed to everything that my wife was or was not comfortable with. Then we took the next big step immediately and decided to bring him home. Here is how things happened: We sat on the couch, wife between me and guy, all wearing clothes. I had imagined to start on couch some kissing and rubbing but my wife was super nervous at that time and was not comfortable in doing something on couch in front of the guy. So I proposed that Me and wife go in the bedroom, start something and then call the guy in the room. Wife agreed for it. Now me and wife are in the bedroom and the guy in another room. We both start playing slowly and I make her topless. She also starts playing with my cock and I get completely nude. After couple of minutes I ask her if we should call the guy in. She says ok and then I call the guy in. Wife is sitting on bed with legs down and I am standing while she plays with my cock. The guy comes in, takes off his pants and gets nude as well. He sits on the other side and wife plays with his cock with her other hand. I ask her if she would like to suck but she says no. She's a bit shy even in watching the guy's cock. Meanwhile we keep asking her if she is comfortable and she everytime says yes she is fine. Then I ask the guy to play with her a bit. He touches her boobs while I remove her shorts and panties. Then she lies on bed and the guy starts fingering her. She keeps sucking my cock meanwhile. This entire thing happens for around 5 minutes. Then I ask her if the guy should fuck her now, she says yes. The guy starts fucking in missionary while she holds my cock with her hand. After 2-3 minutes she feels pain so I ask her to be on top of him. In that position the fucking happens for another 2-3 minutes maybe. We keep asking her if she is comfortable meanwhile. Then the guy switches to Missionary again and after 2-3 minutes fucking, wife is I guess tired and wants to stop. So we ask him to cum and the guy cums while fucking her. Then I fuck her for 1-2 minutes and cum as well. Wife goes to bathroom for change and all wear clothes. NOW, since you have the entire story I would like to get your opinion on: 1) After seeing off the guy, I ask wife on how did she like it. Her first response was 'it was ok' but she would not do it again. I dug deeper into what she liked and didn't. She didn't like the fact that I was not participating a lot. She liked getting fucked for 7-8 minutes. I do not last long and before this she was only fucked for 2 minutes maximum at one time. I could see on her face that she was getting satisfied while having that long a fuck and would love her to get such fuck more often. How should we proceed? Should I convince her to meet with same guy again (because we are comfortable with him) or find a new guy (start from scratch). 2) The entire session was 20-25 minutes. Is it normal? One thing my wife said later was that we got nude and started sex very quickly. There should be environment and all set. How can we increase the overall playtime so that it seems more natural to her? 3) Should we do more MMF first before bring a couple/girl between us? I would really appreciate if you have any other comments on how things happened for us and where should we improve.

Do you recommend to connect with a single guy who has done an MMF before? Or it should not matter?

Thanks for the advice GoldCoCouple. What I meant was that should I tell about the performance issue (lasting time) to the other couple in our chat and casual meet.

Couplers hi, thanks for the reply. However do you recommend that I let the other couple know (about the lasting time) when we talk to a couple or meet them casually?

Hi everyone. We are a married couple for 2 years. Me and my wife have talked about the lifestyle and willing to give it a try. Just to give a bit of context, I (the guy) brought up this topic to my wife while watching threesome, foursome videos to understand what she thinks about doing it in real. Initially she didn't like the idea. Since we are from a conservative society (but living in Europe now), she didn't want to think about having sex with anyone other than me. But gradually she has agreed to give it a try at least. To be honest, I do not last long (mostly 2-3 minutes) and though she doesn't say it, I think she is missing having a great sex. She did not have any other partner so she can not compare my performance with someone else. That's why I am looking for MMF with a nice bull to begin with so that she gets a taste of long fuck. We talked to a guy online and have planned to meet casually. Though we have told him the Yes and NOs, we are not sure how should we go about the casual meet. She wants me to be with her at every step. Maybe these are very naive questions, but I would like to know from your experiences: 1) What all to discuss in casual meet, should I do the talking or her. Anything naughty we should plan to do? 2) Do you recommend fun meet immediately after casual meet or plan for some other day. Besides, She says that she will be more comfortable with a couple instead of a single guy, but I am a bit hesitant to meet a couple because of performance issues. If we talk to a couple, should I tell them about it. We are a bit confused on how the couple fun meet will go if we decide to do it. Hope to find a good advice here. Thanks.