Tjudy

Thanks. Unfortunately our sex life is minimal. He thought getting into swinging would enhance it. It did for him.

Thanks, you have said everything that I am thinking. I am 62 years old, I guess I don’t want him to say it just to make me happy! I feel like I am in a no win situation. He loves his new lifestyle, and I am not sure about it.

I have told him. But he says it’s role playing. He also said how good it was. I don’t want to take that away from him, he is a great husband It makes me feel sad and lonely

We have been married for almost 44 years. We have never dated or had sex with anyone else. We have a great marriage but our sex life is in the shitter! We are new to swinging. A few weeks ago we meet a couple and went all the way. My problem is not the sex that was exchanged, rather than the foreplay, kissing and cuddling my husband did with Cheryl. And his use of viagra. When I mentioned it to him he defends by saying it was role playing. I am very hurt because he does not treat me like that in the bedroom. when I asked him about taking viagra for someone else, because he doesn’t use it with me, his answer was he was saving it. Our sex usually consist of me sucking him for while, saying it felt good, asking me if I want him to play with me. He has had prostate surgery so getting an erection doesn’t happen often. But I want what he gave Cheryl that night of swinging. Any suggestions?