GamingBeeJay

It sounds like she enjoyed herself, but you may be having issues with her having an experience that you haven’t had with her. I would suggest to continue talking with her and let her know how you are feeling

You can’t and shouldn’t force the issue. If it’s not something she’s into or comfortable with then there’s nothing wrong with that. Is her issue with you and another woman a jealousy thing? You’re going to hear this often, but communication and trust are the key elements to an open relationship. Continue to talk with her about your feelings and wants but don’t be pushy. No always means no. It may not be a permanent no, but simply a no for now. Give her time to get comfortable with the idea and of course continue to communicate with her on how she’s feeling and what emotions she is dealing with. Perhaps one day, she’ll have a change of heart.

Nope. I think he just understands that this swinging thing is about casual sex and nothing else. If I found someone attractive and they wanted to play with me too, I couldn’t care less what they said about me. But I do agree, that chick had issues and someone from the start attempting to come in between you two is a huge red flag. We’re they by chance a polyamorous couple?

This sounds like Bee! It’s awesome knowing she’s getting off too.