shecurioushenot

Find somebody better, this man is a lying piece of shit and does not deserve you. Swinging is about open and hones communication and you are being cheated on, lied to and now he is asking you to be part of his lying and manipulations. Find somebody better, you are an amazing and loyal woman and there are many men out there who would be happy to be part of your life - choose somebody better next time.

Thank you :-) I will be bothering you all very soon I suspect :-) It is such an amazing journey for us and I am happy to be part of this community...

Happy for you. I would love to experience all the variations. Am also bi-curious so the more the merrier :-)

Thank you so much :-) I am so excited for our journey and will keep you informed :-)

Thank you for sharing, it is always great to hear an example and makes it so much easier to figure out what to do :-)

Thank you, this was also how I was leaning. To be frank I am not sure that house parties are something that is happening or if it is we just do not know the right people. And yes, I know that it is important to communicate boundaries and being first timers. However, I am a bit confused about what is the best way to go with some boundaries and rules. From what I see on the forum having rules is very usual and too many rules might be a problem (because in the heat of the moment they might get broken and people get jealous and stuff) and on the other end if you do not have any rules it might all go out of hand. How was, rule wise, your position when you started?

Thank you I will show this to him We are too interested to meet like minded couples

Hi, just to add with regards to my wishes. I would love MFM for a start, not sure if my husband is willing just to watch but he has shown he would like to be included. I see that Couple15 also asked about advice, we are anxiously waiting for some more experienced swingers to jump in

Hi, we are couple, together forever, married. I am more curious about it all than my husband and am wondering how best to start. I have been reading a lot and am so strong in theory but zero in practice so would appreciate some advice. I was thinking to go to some swinger club in a foreign city and just watch for a start, what do you think? Thank you all