So my wife have done some swinging for the last couple years. Not an all the time thing. Anyhow I loved the fact that I could watch her with someone else and totally trust her. We had met a couple awhile back and did full swap. All had a great time. Of course when we started we set rules. One of those rules was no one on one communication with opposite sex. Well this guy would message her in and off and she’d always tell me about it. The other day he did and she told me. She told me everything about the conversation EXCEPT a part that was inappropriate. When I confronted her she said she didn’t purposely not tell me. Of course that is a lie considering she literally told me about everything else. This really bothers me as it is breaking a rule we had from the start. That and the fact she didn’t tell me about it. Should I be worried or am I overreacting? I should mention the other part that really bothers me is that in the inappropriate comments it was referencing the 3 of them with no mention of me. Him talking about what he’d like to do to my girl and his, and my wife talking about what the 3 of them had done.
