See have some questions for you fine folks, if you don't mind. First a bit of background.
We have fantasized about swinging for some time but are not sure it is for us. We thought the best way to see if and where we fit is to go to a club. We travel a good bit and have looked up clubs online. We haven't gone to one yet because we are uncomfortable breaking the ice. Can anyone recommend clubs in the south east or California that may have folks like us? We are in our mid & late '50s, lots of kids and grand kids, pretty vanilla outside of our own bedroom but love our sex life together. We think a not pushy, classy, friendly atmosphere with good dancing and others our age, and the freedom to just watch and see what it's all about, would work well for us.
Any help will be greatly appreciated.