New guy to the boards. Here's the situation, and has me turned on. Maybe I'm reading into it, but this excites me. Over the weekend, while having sex, in the heat of the moment, I ask the wife if she needs bigger. In the past she always said it was just fine. This time, she was quite clear that she wished it was longer. I suspect that this was the case for a long time as I cannot make her cum. Before I came, I asked if her "boyfriend" gives her a better time, and she said, " oh yeah," or something like that. Later that day she made a passing comment about my fantasy of her being a hotwife, or a MFM. In hindsight, I should have just been blunt and told her what I'd like to do.
I have always felt my very vanilla wife has a slutty side and is a bit of a size queen. She has made comment that her ex was too small, and now I'm lumped into that category. As a background, we are both late 40's, almost empty nesters and fairly conservative.
I know the standard response will be for me to ask her about the topic outside the bedroom. But, taken at face value, are the size comments something that would indicate she's definitely on the same page, or even has her own fantasies?
