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Thanks for the replies. I guess we'll just have to find a "friend" that just so happens to be able to give good amateur massages

My wife and I have talked about soft swap but haven't fully taken the plunge yet. Something that I've thought of recently that has turned me on is finding a good masseuse to give her a massage where either she or both of them are nude and I could watch. I don't want some guy that's just going to give her a fake rubdown, but a legit massage therapist that can relieve her tension, while also caressing and fondling her in a way that she likes. I love the idea of watching her enjoy herself and if she ends up getting turned on and wants to do some touching or playing with him, I'm ok with that. How hard would it be to find a legit massage therapist who might also be in the lifestyle? Of course this is all a fantasy for now, until she agrees to do it.

Yes and Yes.

Sounds like a fun time!

I too have this fantasy. I've talked with my wife about it when we're "in the mood" and in those times, she's all for it. But that's the extent of it so far.

I have always wanted to attend something like this. There is a huge role reversal/power struggle theme here with a healthy dose of exhibitionism. Femdom can be mentally exciting and submitting to a group of women is a big turn on to some. So, like all fantasies it's hugely mental and I feel a lot of times people look at fantasies as too physical. To be honest, I kind of expected more interested but to each their own :)

Absolutely. I love doing it and having it done to me.

So are you suggesting that bi people are not normal?

Yep. bi-bi here.

TeamSoBe, We can totally relate to this. Our biggest fantasy is finding a like minded bi couple where everyone is attracted to each other and we can enjoy any single or mix between the four of us. The Mrs. and I have used this fantasy very often when we're in the moment, making each other hotter. she describes a scenario of going grocery shopping and coming home to find me pounding the neighbor's wife over our kitchen counter. or the husband of the neighbor coming over and while I'm watching TV, my wife is blowing him behind me. or the guys are watching a movie on the couch and start going at it, and the wives come over and watch.... lots of great scenarios can be built from this one

Different things are hot during different times. When we're just out and about, it's a huge turn on when she leans over and whispers, "I need your cock in me." When we're in the heat of the moment talking about our fantasies, it's "I want him to fuck me."

I'm bi... so yeah, I have no issues with this at all.

Anal is amazing and I think if people got over the stigma of it and really just relaxed, they would find that its' quite enjoyable. My advice... go slow and use LOTS of lube. try to warm up with toys of increasing size and lubricate the inside of the bum, not just the thing going in. As subtle and small as fingernails are, they can hurt.

Seems kind of weird to have to ask if it's ok. There's definitely a fetish aspect to asking your "mistress" for permission... but that's something completely different. The way I see it, it's your body... you can touch it however you want.

For me it's a non-issue. As long as i trust that the other guy is clean, i don't have any issue with someone else's semen.