morriscouple

We're not opposed to same room, in fact it's something we would like to do. Based on all your comments, it seems this is how it starts and once everyone is comfortable, separate rooms are a possibility. Thanks for the feedback!

When we decided to start swinging, we both agreed that our ideal situation would be with a couple, full swap, in separate rooms. We quickly realized that many of the couples in this lifestyle are full swap same room. Sufficed to say, finding couples with our same interests has been very difficult. Finding male singles, however, has been easy for our female half and she's been speaking to one that we both are comfortable with which is great. Finding a female single has been proving very, very difficult for our male half. We've reached out to a few women; our female half does all the correspondence, but no luck. Not sure if we're looking for advice or similar stories, but we appreciate either.

Curious to hear what everyone's preferences are. We're attending some events in the coming weeks: club, hotel takeover, hotel party (in a suite), and hopefully a house party (which we hear are very selective and not always advertised). What are your thoughts? Would love to hear them.

Hi! We are very new to swinging & this is our first post here! Hoping you can give us some help We've just met a married couple (we are also married) that we are definitely interested in playing with. We've gone out with them and had a great time and are planning to meet up with them again. We're the newer of the two couples (though they've only playing for a year) and not sure how to "seal the deal". We don't want to seem pushy or aggressive, but at the same time we feel like they're kind of hanging back because we are really new. Appreciate any advice.