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No, you made that boundary for a reason, if you break it it will go bad. Remember her reasoning. I am a Cuckqueen, always loved the idea in the early days of crossing the boundary, but I knew this. Me and my husband spoke in length and I promised him it would have no issues with us, as a couple, as a loving couple and with our sex life. I love the fact my husband flirts with other woman, I love the fact he can have another woman as I totally get turned on by this concept as well as the reality of the whole situation. If I had made boundaries, I know, as a woman, in my head, crossing that would lead to complications. After all these years with my husband, and I am now 52, I still love the fact my husband flirts, and plays (if a lady he fancies comes our way), although we are looking for the right woman for a long term, friendship with benefits. I wish you well, but please, if you cross it, cross it mutually, and talk openly, without alcohol and after you both have made love, so there will be no sexual tension. xx all the best xx

Hi, Yes I have tried the MFF, and to be honest I did and didn't like it. I am not into woman so the lady we were with, at the time, wanted me to go further and it really freaked me out as that side is really not my thing. That exclusive lady for my husband, is a dream, and also a friend at the same time for both. Just a natural living friendship, with just the extra benefits thrown in. I have read so many stories about men and yes your right, I am the same, just the opposite way around, hence we just recently finding out about the name of which I would come under, "what a name lol"!..

Hi all New to this site, just joined. I only found out the name of how I am after 30 odd years. I am 52, always loved watching my husband around woman, he is a natural flirt anyway, but I get so turned on by him enjoying himself, that I asked if he wouldn't mind asking a woman to sleep with him while I watched. When it happened for the first time, it was a dream come true, and after all this time it is still the same. However, I would like a regular lady, we did have a girlfriend whom was my friend in a social way, but was more of my husbands friend in a bedroom way, however, she has since met someone else and has settled down. We have joined all sorts of sites to find that one exclusive lady but its a nightmare and you get people thinking your weird to playing games and winding you up, this is not for us, we are genuine. Not sure if anyone else can help us here, or direct us to where there is an interest for this sort of life style, but I have been researching now for about 5 years and its just negative after negative. My husband did meet another lady recently, but after the first time of me watching, she thought it was strange me allowing my husband to play with another woman, so we never saw her again. This is the biggest issue we have found, and to be honest, still after all these years I do not know how to approach it. I am an attractive 52 year old and my husband is an attractive 55 year old. Any genuine help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you