Langtowncup

Yes we do play on cam.

So I guess the consensus from those who actually answered is don’t mix the two.

Sorry if I did not explain myself very well. My wife has full knowledge that I have a girlfriend and is very supportive. Mono in a poly relationship means just that, that she is fine with me being Polyamorous but does not want to partake herself. It's different that a "hot husband" scenario as its more than a hit and quit situation. She does like women ( and the term for a women joining a couple where the wife likes to watch is called a cake).

So I am poly and my wife is mono-poly. My wife loves to watch me fuck other women. Normally when this happens it’s usually just someone we have met and invite to join us. However I’ve been seeing a girl for about 2 months now and we really have a good thing going. Do you think it would be kosher to invite her to join us? Maybe that would wreck what we have going? Just keep the cakes to people we meet? I’m interested to hear what you all think.

Awesome! Thanks for replying. We just find it really hot. The whole social aspect of it.

Sometimes when we go out to a pub or dance club, we like to go in at separately and pretend we don't know each other. We make sure we can always see each other and watch each others interactions with people. We find it a big turn on to see each other get hit on and and tease each other. Do any other couples like this kind of play? Is there an actual name for this game?

Hi all, we are fairly new to the lifestyle and are going to our first party NYE. We have some questions though. What if only one of us is ready for a full swap and one of us is only ok with soft. What I mean is my wife has no issues with me having sex with other women as we have had MFF's and I have had girlfriends before but she is not really comfortable having sex with another man. She is fine doing everything else but sex. How do we express this to interested couples and is this an issue that will be frowned upon by other swingers? Any advice would be great.