JnJinVA

We met a couple at a HP, the wife within 5 minutes brings up politics. I kindly said I don't care to share my political views, this is not the forum. She got huffy. I told my husband this isn't our type of crowd and we never heard from them again! Thank goodness!

We will probably not be a fan of some for this question but it needs to be asked... What do you do/say when you meet someone or you see their photos online and they are too big, clearly lied about their weight and/or posted old photos? We have been in this awkward situation more times than we care to remember. We aren't here to hurt feelings but if you are too big, we aren't interested. We aren't into all shapes and sizes and physical attraction means just as much to us as personality. So how do you nicely say "if you are fat we are not interested"? How do you nicely say "try being honest to others and yourself about your size?" Clearly everyone has a different definition of HWP in their own eyes and stating that in our profile has been ineffective. We have given birth, have jobs, have lives etc... and we are not even slightly overweight. Those things do not excuse you to put others in unwanted awkward situations or lie to yourself and others about your true size. - Frustrated