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I just wanted yo tell you how incredibly helpful your comments were . They made sense to me the way you expressed them. Thank you

Hi all , I just wanted to update you . We have parted ways after his comment : ‘I'm a swinger. I want a partner that is or no partner at all’

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That’s helpful . Do you mind me asking how you got into swinging ?

When you put it that way it makes total sense . I assumed it was a lifestyle choice and not just a hobby , but maybe they are the same thing !?

I suppose so .

Thank you so much for taking the time to post - it’s been invaluable in my decision making process .

Thank you so much for all your advice . It’s not simple as I suspected but I feel I cannot he held to ransom so to speak . He’s 57 by the way . If he doesn’t want to take a risk dating me then it tells me something of his real feelings . I would have thought you should be in a loving partnership before exploring .

I think that : I don’t know enough about it We should be in a longer term relationship Isn’t it a case of experimenting I also do not believe in monogamous relationships I want some time

He mentioned it a few months ago .

Hi, I just met a guy and he has told me that no matter how much we connect, are in love, etc. that if I do not swing it’s a deal breaker for the relationship . He says he wants to have lots of sex but wants me there to enjoy it with him. I’m not sure what to think of this situation.