Yeah I’m OK with that. It’s just a thought. I’m not trying to push and wouldn’t get pissed off. I would honestly be OK if she just told me about the dreams. It’s something I would ease into. And except if she doesn’t want to. Honestly My fear in bringing it up is she will think that I want to be with another woman or am using it as an excuse for such. That’s not what I want I don’t even want to touch the other woman. A year after we were married which would be about three years after she told me about the dream, This woman who I didn’t find attractive was playing with my wife’s hair and accidentally brushed her boob. I found that hot even though I didn’t find the woman attractive. Also I don’t know if I said this in my original post but a woman had offered her sex years before we met and she was in a sexless marriage at the time. She told me she wished she took the woman up on the offer.