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ActiveRabbit

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About ActiveRabbit

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 08/20/1988

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    Couple
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    Canada
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  1. Hey, Thanks for replying. I think very rarely about having sex with another men, I am find going to my grave without this experience as it is not such a big deal for me as I do not want to complicate our relationship. On the other hand, he doesn't want to go to his grave without this experience. Like I mentioned above I have never had a vaginal organsm so sex is not in top priority list in my life. I like foreplay part better than sex itself. Again, I know for sure that I will enjoy kissing and making out with another man. I do not think it's worth opening the pandora box. I know I have zero chances of losing him but I still can't feel normal about this. I still can't get my head around the fact he is ok with me having sex with other men. He is saying he will be happy and high five me if I come to him and tell him that I just fucked another guy. If I don't agree to do this with him but allow him to do this then he might have sex with single woman which seems worse in my mind. Right now, I am thinking that I should say yes for the swap 3-4 times and then ask him to stop as I just want to get it over with it.
  2. The problem is I do not want to say No to him as he never says no to me for anything I want to do with my life. I do not want him to feel that he is missing out of new things because of me. So, it seems my options are- a) Tell him he can't do this b) Let him only do this with single woman c) I also do this with him. Yesterday, he donwloaded and app to find swingers near us and he asked if I am ok with that. I said do what you gotta do but then I got cold feet when we received message from someone to meet. Regarding your question about why upset and horny, I get upset thinking that he will be with another woman, toughing her and doing things which till now was exclusive to us. It makes me upset that he doesn't get jealous at all. About the horny part, when he talks about having sex with another woman I get an increased libido because in that moment I just like to fuck and feel assured that he is mine only.
  3. Hey, My and husband and I have been together for 15 years and are have a very strong bond and transparent relationship. We fell in love when we were young so we both have never kissed or have sex with any other person. My husband now wants to experience how it feels to have sex with other woman. He says that he just wants us to have pleasure. He is very open minded like most of you. I on other hand don't want to say no to him and as I do not want him to have regrets thar he never tried this but I am not comfortable with this. I am an extremely competitive person. I am not a very sexual person and I never had intense orgasms. The thought of him with other women makes me super upset and horny because of my competitiveness. I do not have a bit of insecurity that he might leave me but I do have questions like- What if he likes it and I don't ? What if he stops enjoy having sex with me ? Am I not enough for you? He is so calm and normal about me having sex with someone and I on other hand feel bit weird when a massage therapist massages his hips. I have to take deep breaths to feel normal when he talks about this. I do not want to stop him but I do not want to cry, get angry or feel this mixup of emotions I am feeling. Please advice how do we resolve this.
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