Hi, everyone. I’m new here and need advice. My husband and I are 31 with three kids and want a change in our life. We were talking about swinging and decided to try it. We went on couple of drinks with nice looking couples and they said that they would like to swing with us. And here the problem starts. My husband started to feel down saying that he has nothing to offer the other women, that he is below average down there and that he is not good looking. That what if we meet with someone and he can’t get it up.
I assured him that what he is saying is not true and that he is very good looking but he still feels down about it.
I can see that it turns him on and that he want to try it but his thoughts are blocking him.
How can I help him to be more confident and that he gain self-esteem?
Thanks.
