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sinner

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About sinner

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 12/16/1980

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    South Africa
  • Occupation
    Director
  • Swinging Experience
    1year
  • Anniversary
    06/09/2008
  1. Crap... How could I forget to mention important info like that... No penetration has taken place and nowhere in the near future is that in our plans as we get more than enough satisfaction from the build-up and the soft play... Each evening has either started with a massage or games and has turned into a oral playground... what happened with these two events is that somewhere after things got hot attention from the other couple moves fully on my wife. While I enjoy this, by the time she reach climax, she doesn't have energy in playing for a while and I don't mind that because the smile and satisfaction I see in her eyes makes up for it.. It is more the fact that it almost feels like I am just there to help them get my wife naked and then they can take over and ignore me... Just to update.. we have discussed it again since doing the post and have decided to play with another couple before reading too much into this and if it doesn't happen again, then we know the gut feeling I had was correct. My only concern is dealing with the mind and emotions so that I don't create what I fear at the moment when we play with someone else!
  2. I have no idea how to ask or explain this although has anyone ever felt left out or not important or some other emotion in a play session... If so, how did you deal with it... In a nutshell, we have played 4 times... so yes we are still new... every experience was better than the previous except for a small hiccup at the second and last one.. I love sharing my wife and seeing the pleasure on her face so it is easy to put the spotlight on my wife so that she gets the attention... although once everyone has satisfied her and themselves... I am left frustrated... Now it is not that anyone hasn't touched me but also not like I played any roll to anyone either! I know I am not bad looking and also, not that hot where I am every couples dream, BUT I am not the person that would in any way force anyone to do something they don't want to but neither will I stop them when try to play with me... But the problem is that I am feeling so insecure there after that even when my wife gives me the shoulder, I feel completely rejected! How do I make sense of this and deal with it so it doesn't effect future play, could it simply be because it was the same couple and even though I know the answer to that, must I try and figure out how to prevent that from effecting our next play! Although I mentioned this to my wife immediately at each session and we discussed this afterwords, is my mind playing the most fcd-up game with me where I am starting to doubt myself as in every aspect and if I am just maybe meant to sit and watch everyone... So yes I am open to any advice...
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