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Curiousguy2018

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About Curiousguy2018

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 08/18/1972

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  • Relationship Status
    M Male
  • Location
    Massachusetts
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. To give a little more detail, swinging was originally my wife’s idea and it took a lot of no’s from me before I said yes. Basically she wore me down lol. That’s not to say I didn’t enjoy it when we started because I did and it had been fun but the times we have I knew what I was getting in to. The domination stuff has always been her thing seperately and not something we were involved in with our swinging. I get the appeal for people that like that but outside of being behind my back and unsafe the guy told her to get on her knees and did a lot of things to her that I can’t wrap my head around. Plus he wasn’t that attractive of a guy either. I don’t know how I feel honestly right now but thank you all for the responses.
  2. Hi everyone. Just joined this board but my wife and I have been swinging for about a year now and have met mostly with couples and single men. From the beginning this was my wife’s idea and she had to really work on me to get me to try it but once we did we started to have fun. We created ground rules where we would always have to be present in a swinging situation, condoms would always be used, and we wouldn’t do this solo or behind the others back. That worked for us for a while but this week I found out she had broke that rule. She had a fantasy of being dominated by a man and was a member of a fetish site that dealt with that. She met a guy on there and they started chatting. I’m fine with her chatting to whoever and exchanging pics etc but it got to the point where she was interested in meeting this guy solo. She didn’t want me there if she was going to be tied up and dominated and all that. Made sense to me. I told her I didn’t feel comfortable with her going to a stranger's house and being tied up, etc. It’s dangerous and dumb and if she really wanted to try this she would have to make me comfortable first by letting me meet the guy and watch the first time and see how I felt after that. I was very adamant about that and she had asked me on a few occasions and I always gave her the same answer. Well after a bottle of wine and two weeks after it happened she tells me she went to this guy's house after work and he told her to get on her knees and did all this stuff to her. Then tied her up in the bed and used vibrators and some anal hook? Then ended by having sex with her. Don’t really know how to handle this and looking for some advice. She says that she messed up and apologized but I feel she made a dumb and dangerous choice and was unfaithful as well. What are your thoughts? Thanks.
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