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  1. Hi all, Please no judgement. Here’s the situation: I am currently 8 weeks pregnant and I’m not sure who the father is. I had sex with 3 people (including my husband) the month that I conceived so it technically could be any of the 3. Hubby knows, of course, because he was present during the other 2 encounters. I was on birth control but somehow that failed me. We would be over the moon if the baby was his, but hubby has made it very clear that he does not want to raise someone else’s baby. So we have decided to have a NIPP (Non-Invasive Prenatal Paternity) test done. I’ve had my blood drawn twice, and hubby has had his mouth swabbed. The first time they said it was too early and there was not enough fetal DNA. The second time they gave me preliminary results, and there was a 75% result that my husband is not the father. I’m going back for a third blood draw today, because they keep testing until they reach 99.9% accuracy. I don’t even know what I’m looking for here. I guess not really advice because we already have a plan. If the baby isn’t his, we’re not keeping it. I guess just support? I feel so alone. I have my husband to talk to, and he’s been great. But I can’t tell anybody else for obvious reasons. We’ve ghosted all of our swinger friends bc we don’t want to tell them the possibility. Would you tell the other two potential fathers, even if you didn’t plan on keeping the baby if it were theirs? I almost feel like I’m a keeping a huge secret from them. But I also don’t want to cause them to worry unnecessarily. And I don’t want their wives to be upset. Has anybody else been through a similar situation? I’m just so sad about this... I’ll probably never swing again. Something else that’s been worrying me is the possibility of a false negative. I’ve read stories where other women have gotten the NIPP test done and the results excluded their husband as the father, but after the baby was born they ran another dna test and it turned out he WAS the father. So now that possibility is swimming through my head and it makes it even harder to make the decision to not keep the baby based on the results. Anyway, still not really sure what I’m looking for here but it has been nice to vent. Thank you ❤️
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