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  • Birthday 01/28/1973

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    New Jersey
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    Medical Field
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  1. Wife and I have been married for 22 years and we have been in and out of the swinging lifestyle for some years (stopped to have a family, etc. etc.). We 99% of the time do MMF as I am bi and we prefer that scenario. Recently we found a couple who both are bi and we talked, went out tp dinner, chatted and hit it off very well. We meet, the fun ensued and all seemed well. When we got home, my wife told me it was the worse time she had ever had seeing me with another women. I apologized and reminder her that we have words to stop any actions and I did not hear them. She said she felt weird calling it off, and just went for it. I feel quilty for not picking it up, and I think I am pondering it too much, but cannot stop feeling guilty. She says I should not, but I cannot stop it 2 weeks later. Any opinions on how to "get over it". I understand that it was a mistake but feel weird to have a rookie mistake occur after so may years. Thanks for feedback.
  2. We have played with bisexual males before. But have never had a couple where the male is bisexual. Is it a unicorn situation or are we looking in the wrong area? Also, have you ever had a guy want to become exclusive with you and the spouse?
  3. Wife and I have found a guy we both like to swing with and do more often then any person we have meet before. The question is, the guy asked us if we wanted to be in a closed relationship. He will not meet anyone but us and we are expected to do the same. I do not find this a bad thing (nor does wife) and liked the idea at first, but I like variety and am not sure I want that. Wife and I talked about it and we both are not sure about it. Has any other couples ended up being exclusive with another couple / person? Thoughts.
  4. I definitely enjoy what we have with him and he has not showed any "extra" attention to either of us. I was just curious as to why the caressing of the back and all occurred for him and not me. But thanks for the info. Nauseous was when we first ventured into swinging in our mid-twenties. Mid 40's is a lot better. The guy I am speaking about is a great guy. Never shows either of us more individual attention and we hang out when not in the bedroom with my wife. The question was based on wondering why he was being rubbed down by her and she never caresses me. Her answer was "I do not know" . I am not losing potency over it, just curious as to what other people night say about it. I actually got an answer after our last experience. When all was done and he had left she told me she realized it was because ofnhis body language compared to mine. Apparently I flinch or tighten up when she rubs my back. He moans more and gives harder thrust. I asked her to give me a back run and she did and to be honest, it was not as a good feeling as it seems when sje does it to him. All good. Thanks for the insight.
  5. Wife and I are swingers, and about a year ago we found somebody who we both like a lot. In the last couple months I've noticed she has really been rubbing him all over. For example when in the missionary position she rubs his back his arms his chest and I realize she really doesn't do that to me. She actually holds onto my arms and rub my arms but not my full body. I asked her why she does this and she answer's "I don't know". It bugs me because we talked about it and we just met up with him last night and she did it again. How else can I approach this? Will I seem like I am throwing a fit if I were to tell her I don't like this? I mean it's nothing bad or serious I feel stupid for feeling this way so I'm unsure if it is worth bringing or in conversation or make it happen on our next date night? Thanks so much for feedback.
  6. Glad I did not throw a temper tantrum. With wife and I, we have body cues if one gets uncomfortable now. Better than just not saying anything or making an obvious out loud statement.
  7. If you do not mind me as long, what cues did you miss at first?
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