Newandnaughty

Cold fusion is not an opinion. What somebody observed when a monkey ate a peanut is. You’re going way to deep to try to prove an opinion to be science. If I piss in a monkeys face and it goes nuts, is the monkey allergic to urine? Is the monkey adverse to hot liquid? Is the monkey excited by the smell of the urine? 3 different scientists can come up with 3 different theories and they’ll all swear by their own, as will their lab buddies. How about the monkey just doesn’t like getting its face pissed on? Let’s try it 100 times and 100 “scientists” will have a 100 different theories. Dollars to donuts you’ll swear by however Susan sees it. See how that opinion stuff works?

I can agree on engineering/technology (computers, roads, etc.) Formulating medicinal cures, absolutely the best science there is. The thing they all have in common is scientific proof. An opinion on the thoughts and assumptions of an animal that does not have the ability to communicate with the “scientist”, that’s just somebody that thinks their opinion is more important than yours. Peers? In that realm of “science” the peers (friends group) will swear by whatever their buddy says. Opinions are not science, regardless of perceived education level of the “scientist” giving their opinion. It’s a heckuva theory, but that’s all it is.

Absolute fake news. The majority of things that humans observe are things that they have never experienced.

Props to you, you understood more of that than I did!

Too funny! We had somebody send us a message yesterday on sls. IM was just a “hey there, great profile”. Ok, let’s check him out. His profile says he’s there to satisfy your wife when you can’t. You can watch her get the fuck of her life, or some bullshit like that. Delete message, block profile. We, like 99% of others in the lifestyle I’d guess, didn’t get into this because either one of us were unsatisfied. We got into it because we satisfy the hell out of each other and enjoy sharing that satisfaction with others.

I gotcha, possibly just the asshole factor. Whatever you do, wherever you go, you’re bound to run into some assholes. We don’t do the chat rooms, I think my wife has checked them out a few times but not a normal occurrence. First house party we ever went to all the chat was about swinging. We know why we’re here, let’s chat for a minute to see if we’re a good match. In all honesty, if we make the effort to go to a party or meet somebody at a bar, we’re pretty much a sure thing. We’d like to chat a bit before we hit the sheets to get a brief idea of who you are in person, and if you’re not an asshole we’re getting naked. I can’t get a feel for who somebody is if all they talk about is swing partners and conquests. Needless to say we didn’t play at that party.

My guess would be because you’re communicating with these people in an internet chat room. Lots of people speak more frankly with the anonymity of hiding behind the keyboard. I’d bet at least half of the people in the chat room are teenage boys whacking at their peckers.

Don’t blame you in the least. Born and raised here, and there’s a reason why we love going on vacations.

You’ve never been to Philadelphia. Folks smoke it while they’re out on the corners selling it. Then other folks that smoke it drive by and shoot the person selling it because they’re “on the wrong corner”. Never saw a bar owner get shot for selling beer in his bar. Six of one, half dozen of the other. We don’t go with the 420 crowd for one reason, the smell turns out stomachs. We not anti-pot yahoos or anything like that. I don’t judge what anybody does, it’s just not for us.

This ?????? Same with us for the most part. We don’t advertise, however, we’re not going out of our way to hide it. We are who we are, don’t like it then adios amigo.

That’s kind of exactly the point I was thinking about when I asked the question. Family, religion, employment I completely understand. However, losing friends? I don’t mess around sexually with men, actually grossed out by the thought, but I have gay friends. If people don’t want to hang out, have beers, watch a game, celebrate holidays, etc. because they don’t believe in what you do after you part ways for the evening, are they really your friends?

biloxi, still trying to figure out if you’re nudist swungers, Napoleon or both.

Reading the thread about SLS changing around some things on their site has me wondering. A lot of the people seem to think, as well as my wife and I, that they’re trying to push us to more rely on the app. I’ve seen quite a few comments where people say they won’t download the app because they don’t want the SLS icon visible on their phone. This leads to my question. Aside from maybe your parents or your children, do you really give a shit who knows or assumes you’re a swinger? We have friends that know, friends that are suspicious, coworkers that know and plenty of friends, family and coworkers that have no clue. We honestly couldn’t care less who knows, or what they think of us because of it.

Agree about complicated, there’s a lot going on there. My take is that she has 2 boyfriends that don’t like each other. I’d guess that doesn’t go over any better in the swinger world than it would in the vanilla world.

We usually use our phones to access sls site, my wife has used the laptop for it a few times but mainly our mobile devices. I’ve never used their chat option so we don’t miss it. We get IM’s and of course they did away with mail. Hot date section is a hot mess. Downloaded the app yesterday. Looks cool and easy to navigate, until you realize it’s missing half of the shit on the site. “Who viewed me” on the site has everybody that viewed our profile, missing half of them on the app. Sorry for rambling, yes I agree, they’re really screwing up that site.