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  • Birthday 06/24/1971

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    Griffin, GA
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    11/28/2017

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  1. Hey all! We have googled hotwife dares and there are plenty. But huddy needs to be challenged too! Does anyone know of a list for him? Open to suggestions. Like maybe dirty dance with a stranger? Or ........... We love the bar scene where we sit separate and see what happens (it's always fun). Just wanted to see if anyone else's has done or thought about this. We are not a cuckold couple or a full hot wife situation. We are active together everytime he doesn't sit and watch or wait for me to come home. He definitely participates. Just a little background. This is also a hobby not a daily LS for us. Happy swinging S&N
  2. We are looking for a sexy couples class or event to attend. We were thinking like a Kama sutra thing? Just something sexy for us. We know where the swinger events are, we wanted something more for us that is at least sexually charged. Any ideas? For a sexy date night or weekend? Cheers S&N
  3. Thanks for the feed back. I did find myself in a passive role. As mentioned early on it was our first a d we were clueless as to what we were doing. We drank to much, overly excited and didn't know what to expect. We had a great time overall and have learned a lot about what we want and need. I did get upset as someone mentioned. I was jealous, felt left out, and insecure. I'm good now and realize our newbie mistakes. Moving forward we will be more assertive and selective on who is allowed in OUR space. It is for us and a third is a guest in a valuable area of our lives. Cheers S&N
  4. We love this board! Thanks everybody for the advice. We honestly can not believe how sexy the communication is. It might be hotter than the sex. We do have a lot to talk about and grow through. Foe me I know I won't get caught feeling like that again unaware. We might have other things we didn't know but we've git this one covered for now. Cheers S&N
  5. We'd love a checklist!

    Email is brostewart@gmail.com

     

    Thanks and we look forward to talking through the list. How exciting!

     

    Cheers

    S&N

  6. My email is brostewart@gmail.com we would love the checklist. Sounds fun to go over together.

    Thank for the advice!

    S&N

  7. I'd love the checklist! You are so right we didn't communicate correctly. We have great communication typically but we didn't know what all needed to be covered. Ms. K definitely had the green light but again I had no idea what that meant at the time. Im not upset with her at all, she had a great time. That's what I wanted in the end. So our goal is to be more informed on what we need to cover communicating next time. We we're both over excited and basically unprepared what happened. As I said we made several mistakes we learned from. No regrets, just very new and still learning the ropes. S&N
  8. Just wanted to chime in. We had an almost identical situation about the same time as you two. We've learned a lot from it, after the dust settled. My point in posting is to thank you for the post it has helped the two of us with our own hot/bad encounter. Cheers
  9. A quick backstory. We had been discussing swinging for several months. My end of conversation was focused on getting the green light and trying to make sure Ms. K was comfortable with the choice. We did cover her fears and concerns, I didn’t think I had fears or would have strong emotions after. The issue came after our first MFM. We made several newbie mistakes like drinking too much, probably to ease our nerves or get the nerve up. We also had no clue what we were actually doing. We were with an aggressive male that took charge and it was almost a hot wife or cuckold situation which wasn’t what I wanted. All that being said we had a blast and have learned more of what each of us want/need. We definitely will try it again. It was a super hot night after the dust settled. The question at hand is, what do you actually talk about? We are good communicators but didn’t know what we were doing or what to ask one another. You don’t know what you don’t know, so communication was about should we do it? Will we be ok after we do it? I was wrapped up in the heat of the discussion and never realized I would have the emotions to deal with while Ms. K didn’t. I’m asking basically for a check list of topics to cover with one another. I know that is individual but we do need some guidance. How/what do you cover the emotional portion in pregame conversation? What are some basics that need to be covered that a newbie may not consider? For instance, I now know to discuss what we want/ don’t want with the third is a must. Also relaying what we want to each other is vital as well. Last how do you check in with each other while you’re in the moment to make sure everything is going ok? We are fine and have grown from the experience. Even though there was some negative feelings on my part and hers because I didn’t feel great afterwards (no fault of hers at all). The end result was definitely positive. We look forward to growing together in this exciting journey. I hope this all makes sense. Cheers S&N
  10. We want to put together 52 challenges ranging from pretty simple to Holly sh!t man. We want to do like a deck of cards and take turns drawing and seeing how sexy we can make it. So not necessarily "hot wife dares" but hot dares. But along the lines of that . We have a few like skinny drip. Send sexy pics. Just need more. Whatcha thinking??? Cheers Stew and Nanc
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