Norcalswing

Speed dating! How many times have you traveled far, rearranged schedules and spent a ton of money just to meet a couple you've only corresponded online only to be a complete flop? You can make yourself look and sound really cool online. We know within the first two minutes if we are attracted. A few more minutes chatting and we will know, Yay or nay. Always wished someone would host a huge speed dating party. Get to see and talk with potential playmates for 5 or so minutes and move to the next. Keep notes on the potentials and contact according. "Efficient fucking "

She was surprised. She and him had a connection earlier on the dance floor so I knew the were both attracted. But we were both surprised how quickly it all happened. We did have his info but we both thought that this was an in the moment kind of experience. She has no interest in something further with him in particular. It has, however opened up new options and scenarios for our play. Super hot! I highly recommend it if it is at all on one's radar.

Found this kinda by accident, now we can't stop talking about it. We were at a large swingers event flirting and dancing with many different couples with no real sights on one particular. Then my wife sort of magnetically connected with a guy. It could instantly see the attraction by them both. We started talking as they were with a large group. They invited us back to their room and said it was an after hours party. We showed up and there was a good 20 people there. All clothed at the time. Things progressed quickly and people started undressing and playing all around us. This was not our normal scene but here we are. The guy my wife had connected with had came over and started kissing here. He started to undress her as I kinda sat back in a chair and watched. I now started to undress as my intention was to join in. He ate her pussy thru her panties. Then he pulled them off and got on top of here. I was just sitting in the chair alone watching this unfold. I couldn't believe this was really happening. I was right behind them and could see it all. He slid inside her and began to fuck her really fast and hard. I was literally just kinda playing with my dick in preparation of my turn. After a few minutes of him fucking her I could feel that she had fully checked out and was completely engaged in her moment. It was a surprising experience as we never lost track of one another ever before. I was so turned on that my presence wasn't aknowlege by her or him. Her eyes were locked on his as he pounded her. She spread her legs wider than she would when I fuck her. To me it showed that she wanted him deeper and it really turned me on. Next thing I know, I cum. I wasn't really jacking off but lightly stroking while watching. I couldn't believe that it was so intense that I just came. He fucked here for several minutes and she would say to him that she wanted him to cum as she stared in his eyes. This was the most erotic, intense thing we have ever done to date. We didn't plan it or seek it out. It just happened...perfectly. now we can't wait to try it again. We literally talk about it every time we have sex.

That was a great read. You described perfectly the joy in seeing your spouse happy and enjoying sex with another. No jealousy or insecurity. It's a beautiful thing to experience the gift you give each other during the scenario you described. This is why we swing. It's not so we can fuck someone else. For us it's giving each other the gift being intimate with another partner. We get much more out of that then the sex itself.

My wife and I are at odds as to what it means for a man to list his preference on a swing site as "open minded". My take on open minded is that a man is ok with close quarter contact that may happen when four people are in bed together and is non judgmental about a persons preference. Open minded male to me seems sexually adventurous that does not necessarily mean with the same sex. I consider myself open minded in my everyday life as I am tolerant of others beliefs and preferences as does my wife. She thinks that when a man lists open minded, it is code for bi sexual. Usually, in our vanilla life, we tend to gravitate toward open minded people. Is it different when we are talking "sexual open minded"?

Well said! That's us as well. And it's usually her that pulls the plug but no matter who, the answer is no

We love cuddling each other and swap partners. If we get to a comfort level where we can all snuggle together then there's nothing better. We look at the whole swinging thing as a gift to each other not to deprive ourselves of that schoolboy crush that is so much like a drug. To say you can only feel that once doesn't seem fair in life. If we snuggle another person even for hours, it's still that gift to let each other enjoy this feeling.

Have... It's fun you should try it. You really only live once

Although we are not drug users, we went to a party two weeks ago and were offered something we had never had before. Molly. We always said we wanted to try it as it can make sex more intense. Wow, was it ever. Now we want to find a couple who is as experimentive as us to get together and take it. But how do you broach the subject. "hey, lets do drugs". Doesn't sound right. Is there a secret language people are speaking to let you know they experiment? I mean whoa! Some of the most intense sex we've ever had. It would be fun with more bodies. lo

We have been swinging for a few years now and this topic has come up more than a few times. I (him) have this desire to play with and guide another mans cock into my wife's pussy. One time during a play date I positioned myself where I could see the man penetrating my wife close up and I had the urge to pull his cock out of her, suck it clean and guide it back into her. I did not act on the urge. First of all, how do I know how the man would react. My fear of him being disgusted and ruining the night kept me from letting go that night. How would you react if it had never happened before and now your fucking another mans wife and he starts licking and sucking you? I do not display Bi sexual on our swinger profile because I dont consider myself bi sexual. I'm not interested in sex with a man but in the three or foursome situation I would really like to play a little with the guy while he is in and out of my wife. Is it false advertising by not listing myself as bi on our profile?