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ToeDippers last won the day on October 7 2023

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  • Birthday 04/24/1968

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    Northeast USA
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  1. Best age is before 50, our age when we started. We missed out on younger fun. When your relationship is secure is the best age.
  2. Do newbie women start the action normally with the man or woman? Our first try with a couple had a hard stop by my wife, her veto power. My frustration. Our first sexual encounter was with the less than mythical unicorn, a guy’s dream. The girls kissed and breasts were fondled, the true hesitancy was touching below the waist by my wife. Fortunately for us no hesitation by our new friend eased further play. Don’t think that was true here.
  3. This post is so similar to our post over four years ago. Our first meeting with two others everything was very good I was with both other women and the wife was with the men and the women. Great night we went home happy. We agreed before the night we would talk about everything we did, what we liked and what we didn’t. We didn’t have rules set up other if either of us wanted to leave we had a word we would use. I remember how her words stopped me when she said He put it in me, you know. Of course he did. She then said he took it out and put it in the other place, he put it in my butt. I was shocked because she always stopped me. I was concerned he hurt her, she assured me it was fine. I posted I was hurt as I was not the first to do it, again she always stopped me. I wanted to be first. I heard from many on here saying not to be mad. I wasn’t mad at her, I love her. It was more about me being disappointed, less about her doing something. I was reminded I was not her first sex partner yet I don’t hold a grudge, she wasn’t my first partner. I know there is a post about this going back over four years, look it up.
  4. During lockdown we went overboard with Adam and Eve based on past threads like this. Hitachi Wand is up there as most used. She uses a clitoral stimulator too.
  5. This is a great way for young swingers to start I wish we were young and exploring instead of middle aged thinking how much fun we missed. Don’t worry we all felt nervous the first time not knowing what was going to happen. How perfect that you found people you like with as much experience as you agreeing to take that first step. I so want to read that you and them hit it off and made it work. Best of luck just remember to enjoy.
  6. We looked for a female and found a couple that were very nice but we backed out due to nerves. Our true first was with the elusive unicorn, a woman we knew.
  7. Men looking for more for the same reason women look for more. The old adage that it takes two to tango, the site that you are on are matching married men with married women. We started with wanting a woman to join us, my wife encouraged me to join and she watched. Watching my wife with a woman was more exciting, the jealous feeling didn’t hit until another man came into the scene.
  8. We were looking for a woman to be with my wife with me just watching. The Unicorn was willing to do more if we wanted.
  9. No,, we were contacted by too many men who wanted my wife. The thing was we found a Unicorn in our everyday life who was happy to fulfill a very curious wife. Goes to prove there are Unicorns if you aren’t looking.
  10. I envy that you are able to discuss things with a professional.
  11. We were invited to house party awhile back where we met new people as well as the ones who invited us. Now we are starting to be more active and enjoying connecting with others. We reached out to someone we thought we met, they were on an email chain we are included on. We sent a very simple email asking if they were at this party and I mentioned where the party was. They gave a very short response, No, do you have pics? We replied with an apology explaining we thought they were at the party. Again the response was about sending pictures. Period. I should just stop communicating, I replied with What’s with the picture requests. He sent back Well you contacted us. I never asked for pictures just asked if they were at a house party. What’s with people and pic requests?
  12. At the onset of our playing it was individual acts we wanted. We wanted a woman to join us, she wanted to experience a woman and I wanted to watch. We found out that acts are only appetizers not a full experience. Having a list of ingredients doesn’t always make for a perfect meal. It is how you use the ingredients in the right proportions that will give you the best experiences. Too little salt or too much pepper can spoil the end result. Using the same ingredients the same way each time can get boring, changing the recipe opens up your senses. The best recipe is to experiment and try new things. Good luck and enjoy.
  13. We hadn’t bought lubes before and then we met with friends that had Lube Life. I never minded the taste of pussy, damn I enjoy the taste. Now I enjoy Cotton Candy pussy. Now the wife is using water based lube on her toys, I don’t think her pussy knows it’s flavored.
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