My husband and I had our first swinging experience this past week during a lifestyle vacation. We met a couple that we liked and spent a significant amount of time with them. Since this was our first time, we decided that we would be ok with soft swap but no oral. We were both comfortable with just kissing, touching, & hand jobs. We ended up in bed with this couple and the other man and I had a great time. My husband didn’t enjoy his experience and just wasn’t as attracted to the other woman as much as he thought. We both really like this guy for me and are wondering how we can see them again without my husband having to do anything with the wife. We don’t want to offend anyone and we really like her as a person. We are thinking that the only way may be to do something in a larger group so that my husband has someone he can be with as well. Has anyone experienced this “uneven” situation? Is it better to leave this couple behind or try and work something out? We both really like this guy for me (and he wants to see me again as well) but I don’t want my husband to be back in a “taking one for the team” situation.
