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redheartbreaker

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About redheartbreaker

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  • Birthday 02/22/1989

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    Florida
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  1. With this particular couple it started with me talking to the wife, and him talking with the husband and then we all met up together for a pool night at their house. The other man worries me a little bit, as in he just likes being very involved with his spouse. That's fine obviously, I have zero problem with him making sure she is comfortable. But it seems like it also gets to the point it's kind of forgotten that I'm there for the same thing. My husband flirts and interacts with the spouse and i have no problems with that either. We talk at great lengths about all of this. I just feel like he's getting more out of things than I am. We play with other couples, we've done soft swap and full swap. With this most recent couple he's done things with the other spouse which we all said was good, was never any problems for me. But it's just not coming back my way, like the other man gets so focused on making sure his spouse is happy that I just get discarded. I'm not an openly outward person, i'm one of those where i meet you halfway sort of thing and lately feel like i'm going 80% and nothing at all comes back. Very frustrating with it.
  2. Yes, that's definitely me in the pictures. I get the not wanting to feel rejected but even some sort of hint that the other person is interested would be nice. Like, we were all in the pool and it became a skinny dipping thing. I took off my swimsuit top and there was no comments said about it, no obvious signs that he even looked at me which was kind of disheartening. I'm a small girl but it's not like i don't have a pair of boobs to look at. Figured if i was comfortable enough to get naked in that setting that it would bring on some sort of interaction, but it really was just talking about what i did for work. The most recent person in question is at least 10 years older than me. I'm 30 so I'm not looking for something short term like a one night stand type of thing. We actually like knowing the people we play with as friends. Unfortunately the meetups happen at their house and not in a place like a bar or just getting out. The lack of sitter for them makes that difficult. Thanks for the response!
  3. So we're not exactly new to the ls. We've been doing this about 3 years now. But it seems like there's very little interest from men for me. We are a couple, and typically play with other couples. We've never had an encounter with single people before. I just feel like each time my husband hits it off with the spouse, but the men put very little effort into showing any interest in me. I'm not one to "throw" myself at other men. I'll do something to show I'm interested, but the men rarely really reciprocate. Is this normal? I would think in the lifestyle that I wouldn't have to throw myself at men to get them to actually present some interest, but it's getting to feel very odd for me. I'm a redhead, 5'2 and 120 pounds. Willing to have any advice from men or ladies to help me figure this out. Just getting tired of feeling like I'm finding couples just for my husband to do things with people and getting very little back from it. Thanks.
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