IchBinEinSwede

Thanks everyone for replying and thank you for all the advice! As someone stated out, it's just an audition and I will be myself. If it would turn out that the club thinks I'm not suited as a member then so be it. Not much I can do about that. Some random comments from me: - As for drinking and alcohol, that won't be a problem. Yes, I can drink socially but I'd rather have water or something else. Me getting drunk will never happen. - I'll keep in mind to focus first on the woman and then on the man. That said, I won't ignore the man. Probably they both - as a couple - get pleasure from it. Like for example the woman having sex and the man watching. It's better to know both sides wishes if you get what I mean. - Me helping others fullfill their fantasies will be great! Because as I stated: when they feel good, I feel good :-) - Finding out consent and boundaries will probably be awkward, yes, but hopefully practice makes perfect. We're all beginners at some point, right? - I'll probably be nervous at first BUT the funny thing is for me that it might somehow be "easier" being at a swingers club rather than a vanilla club. The reason I say that is because everyone's there for the same reason. Thanks once again!

Hi everyone! I'm new to this forum but decided to write a thread because of the following: - I'm a single guy (know how it sounds...) in his late 30's who've been invited to an audtion night at a swinger's club. The question is, how should I behave during my first visit? Should I just be myself? Should I walk around and introduce myself to others? What unwrittten rules and social codes are at play? Why am I doing this? Because I love sex & erotics and because I enjoy giving pleasure to others, maybe fullfilling their dream. When they feel good, I feel good. My worst fear is that I'll be isolated and keeping to myself, with others judging me as a freak. It's difficult to prove that I'm a serious and respectable guy by just writing here but I consider myself being one. Hope to get some advice, and thank you in advance!