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nyc play couple

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About nyc play couple

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 11/16/1964

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    Couple
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    NYC Area
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  1. I would not trust our younger selves with a smartphone :-)
  2. We used to spend a lot of time on the party lines, this was back in the early 1990s. There were some interesting chat lines we found for couples and singles. The lines were moderated, so if someone really got out of hand they'd be kicked off. We spoke offline with couples and a lot of single guys and a surprising number of single ladies. The phone was a safe and hot activity for us for a few years. We'd go down on each other and jam the phone right in there LOL It was good stuff. There was another phone service, you left ads and people left messages in your mailbox. That one you had to pay for but it was worth it, we met several people off of that. There were 2 singles that we really clicked with - a male and a female. We spoke to them separately for about 2 years and never met them in person. We even had the four of us on the phone a few times and it was a lot of fun, but neither wanted to meet in person and we were ok with that. After a while, we felt comfortable enough that we began giving our number to people we felt good about. After a while, we felt good about a lot of people :-) We did ask most people not to call on weeknights, but that Friday, Saturday and especially Sunday night were good. There was one guy that my sweetheart talked to only on Sunday nights. He'd call after his girlfriend left, they'd chat in the bedroom. I'd wait until they were going good and join in. Now that we're older, we thought about going that route again, just because it's something we were already comfortable with. But we have to figure out how to handle the phones. Seems less safe to use your home phone for this nowadays. Maybe we'll get a cheap cell. Anyway, just reminiscing.
  3. Really appreciate the thoughtful commentary on this thread. When we were active, we used to "meet" people on the phone lines. There was one we belonged to where we left an ad and picked up recorded messages in our mailbox. You could leave messages back and forth and if you clicked, someone would leave their phone number. We enjoyed speaking with couples over the phone, we felt it was a real good way of determining compatibility before meeting in person. Sometimes, though, you knew it wasn't going anywhere and you wanted to politely move on, with no hard feelings. Our way of handling it was to tell the other couple that we appreciated speaking with them but that we'd been having second thoughts, that we needed time, etc. This way it was us, instead of them thinking it was them.
  4. Thank you, this really captured what we were feeling. We've gotten so much excitement even from our missed opportunity that we're inclined to stick with that approach for now. Thanks again!
  5. Thank you both - greatly appreciated! J&K thanks for sharing, great feedback!
  6. It’s been a long time since we were connected to the clubs, probably 20-25 years since we’ve had any experience. When we were younger, we mostly enjoyed 3-way play with single women, I was very blessed with many experiences and we actually had a real good long-term relationship with one woman. We also played with couples and I enjoyed seeing her with another man, but again there was always a woman involved, which is something I really liked. Flash forward a few decades and I’m not nearly as agile as I used to be. Our sex life has made adjustments along with the changes I’ve undergone and we’re quite happy. My best skills were always with my hands and mouth anyway! But the truth of the matter is that my days of giving my wife a deep, hard fucking are over. And so, our conversations while we have sex have recently began to include another man. This is not a threesome scenario, I don’t join in nor do I get undressed. I’m there to watch her and when needed -- to hold her hand, to talk dirty in her ear. In our fantasies, I usually partially undress her in front of the man. Exposing her, offering her to him. It’s all good stuff, gets us hot and we both come real good talking about it. And so, how to take the next step? We thought about posting a personal ad here. We talked about looking to see if there were any off-premise clubs around that admitted single men. And we’ve talked about just going to a regular local bar in Brooklyn or Queens or Long Island. For some reason, we’ve gotten it into our heads that we’d have better luck at a regular bar. There always seems to be a guy there on his own. We’re thinking if we make friendly and we hit it off, the suggestion of fucking my wife might go over really well. We tested this theory a few weeks ago, before Christmas. We hit a bar in Sunnyside and ended up talking to this really young guy. For us, anything under 30 seems really young :-) He was a good looking guy, we were talking about music and movies. He wasn’t there to meet anyone, just blowing off steam on a Friday Night. We had our opportunity – and we blew it. We hesitated and some friends of his came in and that was that. Lesson learned! While he was at the juke box, my wife and I had a few moments to see how we both felt and all systems were go. But I hesitated, just a few moments was all, and the opportunity was gone. If we place a personal ad we know that isn’t likely to happen. We would all know what we were there for. So, why our hesitation to place a personal ad? I dunno. I used to think that it was because we wanted to retain as much control as possible? That maybe we felt like a regular guy going to the bar would be easier to navigate. Now we’re not too sure. Now we are thinking we might be better off either placing an ad or looking for off-premise clubs or meeting places, if there are any. Any thoughts are appreciated.
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