MegabyteB

Very true. But with one couple in particular it was bad enough for me to say never again to my husband!!

My husband and I are about a year or so into the LS and have made some great friends. We have had several full swap experiences. They were great for him, me, not so much. We are a biracial couple, and while he isn't the typical BBC, he can hold his own. I'm finding that the white men in the couples we are with just aren't satisfying me sexually. And black couples usually don't want to swap because my husband "does not look black" for the women. Not sure what to do or how to proceed. Kind words or thoughts?