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  1. Alright! So about two weeks ago, my boyfriend and I for the first time ever visited a really great swingers club. We haven't had any other experience swinging wise, but we have been interested for a while. So on this night when we went to the club, we found a couple. The female half of the couple and I (also female) really clicked and were dancing and kissing most of the night. At some point we got disconnected with them, and later we found them by accident in one of the erotic rooms. We asked if we could take place next to them. We had told them already before that we are still new to this and weren't really sure how far we were willing to go this first evening, that we weren't really ready yet for any type of swap, but having sex next to each other and the females touching is okay. Which is what happened, but at some point, it felt like they really wanted more (but of course, didn't try to push us into anything, they were very very respectful) and we started to feel bad for not wanting to give more at this first time. Anybody else have any experience with this? I almost felt like we were too boring for them. Tonight, we are going to the same club again, and don't want to have this repeated situation. Would you all suggest to just move on fast to another space and don't spend too much time with the same couple because it will bore them?
  2. Thanks for your honest response! Of course, there is no way to know for sure besides finding out through experience, but I do think we make good play partners. As for our first experience, we are more so looking to connect with another couple and see where it leads. We aren't interested in full swap as of yet, either soft swap or no swapping at all if you will, more of doing things 'together'. My boyfriend is really clear about what it means to him. He wants to do this as a couple, and we are both completely interested in doing this. He wants to see me enjoy myself, which brings him joy. I find joy in doing sexual things together with him. I'm personally for example not completely interested in fully swapping and just having sex with another guy, while my boyfriend is having sex with the man's woman. I'd prefer more together-ness. We can both enjoy the girl, or both enjoy the guy, or all together. I don't know if there is a term for this? But yeah, we are very much on the same level about what we want and are looking for. We know we aren't doing it so much because I or him have a need to go out and fuck other people. It's something we want to do together. We want to fuck other people together and enjoy the experience with one another.
  3. Hi all! I have a question regarding playmates. Do you and your partner usually seek out play partners who have been married for a reasonable amount of years, or do you also consider those that are not married yet to be good play partners? My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, are fairly young, but have both been interested for a long time and are generally not jealous people, like to have a good time together, and are very secure in our happiness and relationship. We have great communication as well. We feel we are secure enough to swing. We are worried however, that upon entering this new territory, other couples may not take us serious due to the fact that we aren't married. So I was wondering how the opinions are divided? Would you and your partner give a chance to a dating couple, or only keep it to married couples?
  4. Hi! My boyfriend and I are new to the swinging community, we reserved a spot for this Saturday at a very known Swingers club close to where we live. It usually attracts around 300 couples in a night and is a very luxurious place! I'm fairly young for this community, I guess, being 21. I would say I am a very tattooed person. No vulgar tattoos, or anything. Just very tattooed. I also have about five piercings in my face, not too big or flashy, they look feminine. But they're there. I am just wondering how accepted these things are in the community? I know this community attracts more open minded people, but are they openminded towards tattoos and piercings, or is it a turn off? Will people not approach you because it looks 'dirty' or 'unclassy'?
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