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Emptynest2018

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About Emptynest2018

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 09/14/1977

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    California
  • Swinging Experience
    Just dipping our toes in!
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    Emptynest2018
  1. Thank you so much for taking the time to offer advice and detail your experiences I really appreciate it. Once we schedule a new date I am definitely going to go with the mindset you described!
  2. We plan on trying “Club Twist” in San Francisco but I hear “Club KISS” in SF is also good so may try that as well.
  3. We had it scheduled for the 17th however had to cancel due to some unforeseen circumstances (death of close friend). Haven’t rescheduled yet but hopefully soon!
  4. Newbie here! Would love any and all advice on our profile Emptynest2018 on SwingLifeStyle.com Thanks so much in advance for any help! B and A
  5. Not too near you...Club Twist in San Francisco...but I will let you know how it is....might be worth a mini vacay!
  6. Ohh my gosh!!! Thank you so much for taking the time to write all that out! You just lessened my and more so my wife's nerves by a huge amount! We will definitely follow your advice and greatly appreciate you putting forth your experience to better ours. So excited! Thanks again! Edit: My wife just chimed in and commented how thoughtful and articulate you are and how much she appreciates the time you took to detail all of that out!
  7. Perfect and thank you for the advice... she seems pretty firm on just playing together but in the group environment this time...which is fine, her pace... no pressure. To be honest I think its a pretty good first step on her part to be willing to go to a swingers club and have sex with me in public.. she was raised super conservative so im proud she is finally agreeing to experience coming our of her shell some... don't wanna push as I suspect that would backfire and she would close off completely.
  8. Thanks for the advice.. Im not too concerned with me personally as I would handle things exactly as you said above... was more worried about the wife being "surprised" by another male without asking... if that makes sense.
  9. Hello all, Originally posted this in the "curiosity" section.. but I think this section is perhaps the better fit. First post here and looking for advice on a few questions. My wife and I have decided to attend an onsite club on August. First time, no past experiences of any sort just something we have agreed to explore to add a little something different and some spice. My wife is not at a point where she is comfortable with the idea of soft or full swap, (I am but have realized by reading up on this forum that the name of the game here is to go at the slowest partners pace so thats my intent, no pressure on her) so our intent is to go and have a great time and just be with each other sexually in the play area. My question is when it comes to the dancing section of the party (pre play room). If we switch partners dancing what is the norm with touching etc. I haven't discussed this possibility yet with the wife but would like to know what is the norm? Hands roaming, kissing etc. Is it ask first? Is it considered acceptable as soon as one agrees to "dance"? Obviously we have discussed limits in the playroom... any other advice or tips anyone can give would be most appreciated! I welcome any questions at all...any information that I can provide to get the best answers! Thank you in advance!
  10. Hello all, First post here and looking for advice on a few questions. My wife and I have decided to attend an onsite club on August. First time, no past experiences of any sort just something we have agreed to explore to add a little something different and some spice. My wife is not at a point where she is comfortable with the idea of soft or full swap, (I am but have realized by reading up on this forum that the name of the game here is to go at the slowest partners pace so thats my intent, no pressure on her) so our intent is to go and have a great time and just be with each other sexually in the play area. My question is when it comes to the dancing section of the party (pre play room). If we switch partners dancing what is the norm with touching etc. I haven't discussed this possibility yet with the wife but would like to know what is the norm? Hands roaming, kissing etc. Is it ask first? Is it considered acceptable as soon as one agrees to "dance"? Obviously we have discussed limits in the playroom... any other advice or tips anyone can give would be most appreciated! I welcome any questions at all...any information that I can provide to get the best answers! Thank you in advance!
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