My wife and I are very new to this scene , so new in fact that we have do nothing as of yet. We have been intimately playful with another couple that are friends of ours and we were thinking of how to get it to the next level. By playful I mean very playful " my wife and other lady kissing , fingering , etc. , as well as each of us has seen each couple having sex" nothing has crossed between anyone except foreplay by the females , except a few body shots and light touching. Any advice out there??